My SO is uber moody sometimes he's ok sometimes not...its very tiring i dont know how to start a conversation if he's always like that... this morning, we end up having question & answer type of conversation.. feels like he's just forcing his self to answer..lunch time, still the same..i asked him if he want to discuss something he just replied no thanks.. told him that i feel there still a wall between us..he just said sorry that he cannot contribute anything..just like that??? God, i just wanted to disappear! im sooooo clueless.. im not a mind reader. He won;t say anything..i feel so exhausted in this relationship! im so stress..i dont want to think of giving up, but i feel were leading up to that... he doesnt want to help himself to grow...he always say sorry for hurting me but i cannot see the effort... and what's funny, he has always the right to have a feeling of being ignored...
there was a time i asked him what i will do if he's like that to avoid misunderstanding..he got mad at me! saying my timing is perfect to make him feel bad about his own problem... i should not the one asking for the solution to his problem!! Argghhh!! pls. help me
there was a time i asked him what i will do if he's like that to avoid misunderstanding..he got mad at me! saying my timing is perfect to make him feel bad about his own problem... i should not the one asking for the solution to his problem!! Argghhh!! pls. help me
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