Hey everyone!
I looked for a similar topic, but couldn't find it and it's one of my big issues. Back in the Netherlands I have a wonderful family and we've always been close. They think my boyfriend from the US is great and definitely worthwile, as long as he will move here. They don't say it in a forcing way, but I know we would all massively miss each other. Same with him and his parents (although because of college he sees then way less than me already. I come home every weekend and he comes home once every 2/3 months.)
Does anyone have the same? Or does anyone who has closed the distance got some advice on how to eventually cope with this? I know it sounds unfriendly, but if it were only my friends here I would go right away (I've travelled before and know real friendships can handle distance). But parents... We haven't sorted out who will take the one-way ticket to the other side of the ocean, and this is definitely a big thing for decision time.
We still have until the summer to decide (then I'll graduate and he'll have the chance to do grad school somewhere else), but I'm way too realistic and anticipating to not logically think about these things already...
Looking forward to your opinions and experiences!
Xx Flo
I looked for a similar topic, but couldn't find it and it's one of my big issues. Back in the Netherlands I have a wonderful family and we've always been close. They think my boyfriend from the US is great and definitely worthwile, as long as he will move here. They don't say it in a forcing way, but I know we would all massively miss each other. Same with him and his parents (although because of college he sees then way less than me already. I come home every weekend and he comes home once every 2/3 months.)
Does anyone have the same? Or does anyone who has closed the distance got some advice on how to eventually cope with this? I know it sounds unfriendly, but if it were only my friends here I would go right away (I've travelled before and know real friendships can handle distance). But parents... We haven't sorted out who will take the one-way ticket to the other side of the ocean, and this is definitely a big thing for decision time.
We still have until the summer to decide (then I'll graduate and he'll have the chance to do grad school somewhere else), but I'm way too realistic and anticipating to not logically think about these things already...
Looking forward to your opinions and experiences!
Xx Flo
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