Hey all, thanks for your replies
I know I can't force him to or that I can't be his therapist.. I think my main problem with this (other than it just being horrible seeing him like this) is that I knew what to do or how to support him best if I was close. but I can't even help him with his sleeping pattern because I cant keep him up when he should be awake but gets sleepy or wake him up if he is sleeping because our schedules are so different.
I cant do anything basically, and I always think its so hard already when he has the flu and I want to care for him, only this is much worse...
we do have spoken about it more now tho and I thin my advice to seek help actually got through now. I don't think he's actually going to do something in his own, but at least he admits it now which I guess is a big first step.
I'm also super stressed out with work etc so that add to my not so great mood about this and makes it extra hard ...
but thank you all for listening!!
I know I can't force him to or that I can't be his therapist.. I think my main problem with this (other than it just being horrible seeing him like this) is that I knew what to do or how to support him best if I was close. but I can't even help him with his sleeping pattern because I cant keep him up when he should be awake but gets sleepy or wake him up if he is sleeping because our schedules are so different.
I cant do anything basically, and I always think its so hard already when he has the flu and I want to care for him, only this is much worse...
we do have spoken about it more now tho and I thin my advice to seek help actually got through now. I don't think he's actually going to do something in his own, but at least he admits it now which I guess is a big first step.
I'm also super stressed out with work etc so that add to my not so great mood about this and makes it extra hard ...
but thank you all for listening!!
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