My girlfriend and I used to live together, but she moved in with her mom to get her life back in order. I won't shed the details right now, but she has been making great strides in staying the right path.
Last week her beloved pup passed away. He was with her. Since Sunday I have not had any communication from her. We normally talk several times a day, every single day without fail. She and I have been apart for a little over a month. We were making plans to get a new house together and move to a different state. I had been prepping the house for it to go on the market.
Last I heard from her was an email saying that she was having a very hard time without her boy, and that she was emotionally exhausted and drained physically. She asked for space so that she could mourn. I supported her in her request, and only have sent her morning and good night emails to tell her I'm thinking of her. I always say that she need not reply if she isn't up to it.
Honestly it's been hard. It was heartbreaking to have to see her move but it was necessary. My heart aches now. I dare not call her because I don't want to enfringe. Her silence is unsettling. I miss her badly.
How do I cope? What should I do? I feel lost. I keep myself busy working on the house, but my heart just feels broken. I hurt for her pain and for the pain of being apart.
Thank you for the advice
Last week her beloved pup passed away. He was with her. Since Sunday I have not had any communication from her. We normally talk several times a day, every single day without fail. She and I have been apart for a little over a month. We were making plans to get a new house together and move to a different state. I had been prepping the house for it to go on the market.
Last I heard from her was an email saying that she was having a very hard time without her boy, and that she was emotionally exhausted and drained physically. She asked for space so that she could mourn. I supported her in her request, and only have sent her morning and good night emails to tell her I'm thinking of her. I always say that she need not reply if she isn't up to it.
Honestly it's been hard. It was heartbreaking to have to see her move but it was necessary. My heart aches now. I dare not call her because I don't want to enfringe. Her silence is unsettling. I miss her badly.
How do I cope? What should I do? I feel lost. I keep myself busy working on the house, but my heart just feels broken. I hurt for her pain and for the pain of being apart.
Thank you for the advice
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