Since my mother sadly kinda brushed the topic off, I would like to ask for people's input here!
The main thing that stops me from getting married anytime soon is money. My SO is earning an okay income as a PhD student and I'm doing what I can with my freelance work, but it's certainly all nothing to spend frivolously on a wedding. I'm in no rush to get married, but admittedly do want to see if it would be possible before my SO gets his PhD (which would be in 3-4 years).
So, I'm curious: What are the biggest costs at a wedding, and how can they be avoided? I'm pretty good at organizing events and being frugal with them, but I also don't want to save money in the wrong places. I don't need anything fancy or pompous, all I want is being able to have friends and loved ones there to spend a lovely day with us.
I would greatly appreciate any input or advice with this matter, thank you!
The main thing that stops me from getting married anytime soon is money. My SO is earning an okay income as a PhD student and I'm doing what I can with my freelance work, but it's certainly all nothing to spend frivolously on a wedding. I'm in no rush to get married, but admittedly do want to see if it would be possible before my SO gets his PhD (which would be in 3-4 years).
So, I'm curious: What are the biggest costs at a wedding, and how can they be avoided? I'm pretty good at organizing events and being frugal with them, but I also don't want to save money in the wrong places. I don't need anything fancy or pompous, all I want is being able to have friends and loved ones there to spend a lovely day with us.
I would greatly appreciate any input or advice with this matter, thank you!
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