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Last edited by Ahava; July 10, 2014, 03:20 AM.
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Originally posted by Ahava View PostWhat about if you two flew together somewhere closer to the UK? I mean if you travelled there for a longer period of time and then you could go on holiday (cheap flights) some where? In that way him travelling to Canada wouldn't feel such a big step.
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Me. I do almost all of the traveling, and while I'm a much better traveler than he is, it's getting annoying.
I like to travel, and to fly, it's nothing to me to grab my passport and go; travel doesn't stress me out, I look at it as an adventure, and I love visiting other places. That said, it's starting to feel very unequal. I've been to Finland 8 times, he's been here twice and once was for work. I get that he's not a traveler and he hates leaving Finland, but c'mon already. We pay our own travel expenses, and yeah, he pays for everything when I'm there, but plane tickets to Finland, especially in Summer are horribly expensive.
Also, I have a Dalmatian who turns 15 next month, I kind of worry about leaving her for a few weeks. Yes, we've talked about it, yes, he knows how I feel, yet it'll probably be on me to do the next trip, as usual. I never minded much until recently, but I'm starting to mind now. A lot.Our separation of each other is an optical illusion of consciousness. ~Albert Einstein
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Untill now and untill October when I'll become 18, him.
Im still at school and he has a job, plus I cant travel alone untill Im 18 (which I'll be soon oh God finally). But I'd really really love to go there on my own, as a challenge for myself and because I really like to travel. In fact we talked about it, I'd want to go visit him for Christmas holidays but we came to the conclusion that from the next year I'll be the one to move too, I really wish it'll happen for his birthday on spring.
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I have always visited him - because of visa and finance issues like some other posters mentioned. I know that if it was a more realistic possibility, he would visit me and my home in a heart beat. Other than outside factors inhibiting the ability to be even on the visitation front, we're pretty even in other aspects of the relationship. He usually pays for my daily expenses while visiting. Although, I'm the planner - even for activities while I'm there. He'll pay for something but personality-wise, I'm more focused on details and he's big picture/go-with-the-flow. hahaWhen two hearts are meant for each other, no distance is too far,
no time is too long, and no other love can break them apart.
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We both travel to see each other the same amount. However, we don't get to see each other very frequently. It's usually me who has to remind him to book flights and take time off work, etc.. but at the end of the day, we both travel just as much to see each other![CENTER]
first met: ~10.03
became official: 28.03.11
first meeting: 08.06.12 - 24.06.12 (jason in vancouver)
second meeting: 18.07.13 - 30.07.13 (jason in vancouver)
our first vacation together: 30.07.13 - 20.08.13 (cynthia in new orleans)
third meeting: 14.12.13 - 03.01.14 (cynthia in new orleans)
fourth meeting: 21.05.14-02.06.14 (jason in vancouver)
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We try to keep it even and take turns to travel to see each other. Most of the visits are around 2-3 weeks but the last visit was him coming to California and that was a 4 month stay. Not sure if I would be able to stay that long because of school but I was surprised that he agree to stay for so long to be with me lol Hopefully I would be able to see him this Christmas~
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