LDR's within the UK

[ali-lhar]

Oh come on, Britain is tiny. The L in LDR isn't even that L!

No distance is easy,people may have to get on planes but it's still hard no matter the distance
When all you want to be is in they're arms and you haven't got enough to travel to see them
Or you can be like come round tonight

Waiting two weeks in any relationship would be horrible let alone knowing they're miles away
Counting down the days
forever waiting for the moment when you don't have to say goodbye again

[ali-lhar]

anyone in essex?

[honeybunny]

Saying goodbye really is the worst. You want to kiss and hug as much as possible but you know it has to end at some point and you have to leave. My first night back home and it hurts to be without him.

[kirsten119229]

I'm really sorry to hear that. Sending you hugs. Were you together long?

Hi,
we are back together now! neither of us could stand not being together. it was only 3 day since we broke up and it killed us. We spoke for a long time and decided to make a go of it again. I won't go into the reasons why we broke up in the first place but lets just say they were pretty trivial!

We have been together a month today x

thank you for being so kind though. And thanks for the virtual hugs!

[kirsten119229]

Yes I'm in Essex!

[honeybunny]

Hi,
we are back together now! neither of us could stand not being together. it was only 3 day since we broke up and it killed us. We spoke for a long time and decided to make a go of it again. I won't go into the reasons why we broke up in the first place but lets just say they were pretty trivial!

We have been together a month today x

thank you for being so kind though. And thanks for the virtual hugs!

Aww fantastic news! I'll have to do a post about everything I did with my boyfriend. What an amazing 5 days!

It's 3 months for us on the 25th. Exciting!

[honeybunny]

So I was with him for five wonderful days. We packed in so much. The first night we didn't do much as I arrived in the evening. The next day he worked but it wasn't all day so we went into the city centre and looked around the shopping centre. So much bigger than I'm used to in my little town. On valentines day we watched Deadpool in imax, which was amazing. We went to the sea life centre too, it was great seeing the huge manta rays and touching starfish. We played video games in his house too. He has 3 consoles, he games way more than I do lol. I love gaming but I only have a PS4 and 3DS. I loved all the precious moments, like cuddling and kissing. Sleeping next to him in his bed. I miss it all so much.

[kirsten119229]

So I was with him for five wonderful days. We packed in so much. The first night we didn't do much as I arrived in the evening. The next day he worked but it wasn't all day so we went into the city centre and looked around the shopping centre. So much bigger than I'm used to in my little town. On valentines day we watched Deadpool in imax, which was amazing. We went to the sea life centre too, it was great seeing the huge manta rays and touching starfish. We played video games in his house too. He has 3 consoles, he games way more than I do lol. I love gaming but I only have a PS4 and 3DS. I loved all the precious moments, like cuddling and kissing. Sleeping next to him in his bed. I miss it all so much.

Sounds perfect.
I should be seeing my SO this weekend which is exciting. I'm a bit nervous too though but we'll see how it goes!

[honeybunny]

Sounds perfect.
I should be seeing my SO this weekend which is exciting. I'm a bit nervous too though but we'll see how it goes!

Good luck! I really hope it goes well. Let us know how it goes.

[kirsten119229]

Good luck! I really hope it goes well. Let us know how it goes.

Thank you! I will do x

[honeybunny]

I was a bit pee'd off at him last night. He added me into a group chat with his friend. He went quiet in the group then left. He said his friend was paying too much attention to me. Bearing in mind I had to put up with his ex contacting him on Facebook on valentines day. I don't feel like I did anything wrong. We were all chatting together in that group. We have talked about everything now and sorted it out but I feel like it should never have happened.

[kirsten119229]

I was a bit pee'd off at him last night. He added me into a group chat with his friend. He went quiet in the group then left. He said his friend was paying too much attention to me. Bearing in mind I had to put up with his ex contacting him on Facebook on valentines day. I don't feel like I did anything wrong. We were all chatting together in that group. We have talked about everything now and sorted it out but I feel like it should never have happened.

Yeah that should never have happened!
It was only a chat after all, and if he felt that way surely he should have told you or his friend at the time not after the event. That would have been more sensible.
Just watch that. Jealousy can be a killer of relationships.
I'm sure he was just being protective though. At least you have sorted it now.

Did he speak to his friend too, or just you? Maybe that would be a good idea also.

[honeybunny]

Yeah that should never have happened!
It was only a chat after all, and if he felt that way surely he should have told you or his friend at the time not after the event. That would have been more sensible.
Just watch that. Jealousy can be a killer of relationships.
I'm sure he was just being protective though. At least you have sorted it now.

Did he speak to his friend too, or just you? Maybe that would be a good idea also.

He tells me he's spoken to him, because the guy was asking why he left. We have sorted it now but I really hate the way he made me feel. He knows that and apologised about a million times. I told him to stop doing that lol. He admits he was jealous which is natural I suppose, but I don't want it to destroy everything.

[kirsten119229]

He tells me he's spoken to him, because the guy was asking why he left. We have sorted it now but I really hate the way he made me feel. He knows that and apologised about a million times. I told him to stop doing that lol. He admits he was jealous which is natural I suppose, but I don't want it to destroy everything.

Oh, I'm sure it will not destroy everything! Don't worry.
As long as you are both aware of how the other feels, all will be ok.
And yes, of course it's natural for all of us to feel jealous. Especially when you are so far from the one you love. I'm really pleased it's all sorted for oyu now
When do you get to see him again?

[honeybunny]

Oh, I'm sure it will not destroy everything! Don't worry.
As long as you are both aware of how the other feels, all will be ok.
And yes, of course it's natural for all of us to feel jealous. Especially when you are so far from the one you love. I'm really pleased it's all sorted for oyu now
When do you get to see him again?

He keeps joking that we split up for a day now lol. It's our 3 month anniversary today, and he's coming to see me at the end of March. Then I'll go and stay with him in April. We're trying to at least see each other once a month, but we'll see how that goes. We have a wedding and an event to attend in September which is definite now as we have our tickets for it.

We both agree that it feels a lot longer than 3 months and we really have settled into a lovely relationship. We have all these in jokes and he's just a big kid, which is why I love him.