I am Sam and my boyfriend is Brad. He lives 1800 miles away in Washington State. We've been best friends and in a relationship for almost a year and six months. Lately, we have been having issues and we have been fighting a little over the phone. We text 24/7 and every night we talk on the phone. The problem was that I was feeling like the relationship was getting too difficult and stressful for me so I told Brad. It has been stressful since day 1 but obviously, we are in a long distance relat...
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Miss You Issues: Together or... Not?
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I am Sam and my boyfriend is Brad. He lives 1800 miles away in Washington State. We've been best friends and in a relationship for almost a year and six months. Lately, we have been having issues and we have been fighting a little over the phone. We text 24/7 and every night we talk on the phone. The problem was that I was feeling like the relationship was getting too difficult and stressful for me so I told Brad. It has been stressful since day 1 but obviously, we are in a long distance relat...
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Miss You Issues: Timelines & U
Dear Miss U,
How do you keep going and try to smile when he’s not here I sat and watched him beg me not to make him go as he cried and I cried and I cant message him or webcam him and he is all the way in Italy while I’m in KY I have no doubt that we will make it I just want to know how can I smile when my everything isn’t here?
~ Half my Heart is in Italy Dear Halfie, You smile because you need to learn to be complete and happy in and by yourself. Your life can not revo... -
Miss You Issues: Insecurity, Infidelity & U
Dear Miss U, I met my boyfriend over the internet a little over a year ago we talked every day and soon discovered we had feelings for each other and as time went on, they grew. I know it's silly to a lot of people for someone so young to say this, but I am really in love with him. Despite the distance and despite never talking to each other in person we're both in love. The problem is, I'm horribly insecure. When we don't talk for a while I just sort of mope around. You see, I'm always the... -
Miss You Issues: Dating, Sex & U
Dear Miss U, I'm 22, college student, and still single. I think that makes me a little desperate. So, one day I accidentally wrote a message to this unknown lady on facebook, I got positive reply, and after a week messaging each other from facebook, I got her number and asked her out at once. And, a miracle, she agrees and our meeting is on my flight date. I'm departing from my hometown to 2 hours plane flight in another island. That afternoon we met and I have her to pose for me, and now eve... -
Miss You Issues: Time to talk & U
Dear Miss U, My girlfriend and I started dating our senior year of high school, after we had decided on separate colleges, but we both knew we were going to keep dating despite the distance. Two years went by, with us forgoing social lives in exchange for spending on average 8 hours a day "with" each other (video chatting, mostly). In our third year of long distance, we realized that we needed other friends in order to maintain a healthy relationship. That's left us talking to each other less ... -
Miss You Issues: Their Work Affects U
Dear Miss U, My girlfriend works entertainment on a cruise line. It was her dream to work on a cruise ship and she finally got the audition and the job for 1 contract. We have done the distance thing now and it is coming up on her time to come back. She is now asking should she put yes on "to be considered for future contracts" on her end-of-contract paperwork. There is nothing more I want in the world than for us to be together here. She says that’s what she wants too but then questions like this c... -
Miss You Issues: A Year & U
Dear Miss U, Here's my situation -I live in a household with a Dad, Mom, and two little brothers. My parents are the type who have "no girlfriend" rules. I've already tried talking with them about it--hoping to come to a compromise--but it didn't work. They basically tell me no relationships until I'm 18. And I'm 16 now (almost 17). For years I've been going through emotional pain because I see all my friends in these great relationships, and I see myself as being left out. So I joined (secretly) a dat... -
Miss You Issues: Communication & U
Dear Miss U, We've been together for a little over a year now. We live 2,300 miles apart. I'm still at home with my parents and he lives with a roommate. He was just home for ten days for Christmas and left on Christmas eve. Hardest thing ever. But him being home made me realize I can't do this another year. I need to be with him and I am more than willing to move there. So, clearly I have made up my mind. I guess what I am fighting with is how to talk to my parents about it? Its causing me to... -
Miss You Issues: Questions for U to ask
Hello there,
My girlfriend and I are running out of questions to ask each other, and it gets a bit tense at times. Can you recommend any good questions or lists of deep meaningful ones?
Alex
G’day Alex
It can be hard to come up with good thought-provoking questions! Luckily there are many resources out there for the uninspired. A few good links for books that I or people I know personally have tried and enjoyed :
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Miss You Issues: What's best for U
Dear Miss U, In the beginning of my boyfriend and I's relationship I had a male friend who would hit on me and I told the boy to stop and my boyfriend about him and I didn't want to be mean to the friend and tell him that I did not like him and to leave me alone. Then over the summer I accidentally lied to my boyfriend 3 times about telling him everything and he lied and hid some things too. But then at the end of August when I started high school he suddenly began picking fights with me eac... -
Miss You Issues: The Ex Factor
Dear Miss U, I'm in love with an European boy. We met because of a friend of the exchange, on ICQ. Those days we used to talk a lot. Since I would wake up until I'd sleep, and none would get bored of that, it was always nice and funny. He used to tell me beautiful things always, and I too. But once he told me his friends would annoy him too much in the class with me (that means he would talk about me) and all his friends would tell me all the beautiful things he'd say about me and so on. But... -
Miss You Issues: Discipline & U
Dear Miss U, My question is how to cope with the loneliness of a LDR? my boyfriend and I text and talk regularly, make trips when possible, but it's the day to day stuff like watching tv together or eating dinner that just isn't the same by yourself. Sometimes it is unbearable....I love this man more than I ever thought possible, but the happiness of being together is always tempered by the sadness of being apart. We have only been living apart for about 2 months or so. Does it get easier? And... -
Miss You Issues: Getting Bored & U
Dear Miss U, It has been nearly a year since I’ve been dating my boyfriend and I’m scared of losing him but things are going really well except we only talk on facebook and the only time we call each other is like only once in two months because its really expensive and they are some people that keep telling me that our relationship won’t last because he might get bored of me so I’m really scared of losing him so what should I do to make sure that he doesn’t think I’m busy? Please help thanks... -
Miss You Issues: Resources & U
Dear Miss U, My SO and I met on a dating website 7 months ago and I knew early on he was "the one." We went into this knowing we'd be in an LDR; but we knew we'd eventually be together. Somehow we'd work it out; but it hasn't worked out so far. I have faith that we'll eventually be together; but as everyone knows on here, it's HARD! It seems like his faith in us is dwindling. Is there any way I can build closeness without making it obvious? I want him to think like he came up with the... -
Miss You Issues: Boring Phone Calls & U
Dear Miss U, I have been going out with my boyfriend for a year on Saturday, he is currently serving in the army so I only get to see him on weekends and leave, we have a place together and we are engaged. When he is at home our relationship is amazing I couldn’t ask for better. I still get butterflies when I know he is on his way home on a Friday and he makes my lips tingle when he kisses me. What worries me is we sometimes run out of things to say when we talk on the phone through the week. It se...