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Miss You Issues: Troubled Times
Dear Miss U, My boyfriend and I met my sophomore year of high school and have been dating ever since. When I was deciding where to go to college, he encouraged me to go where ever I wanted, even if it meant far away from him, if it would mean I would be happy. I chose my dream school in SC, 2,000 miles away from him. The first semester was hard, but we made it through. I started working and he has a job that he doesn't like asking time off from especially now that he is moved out and paying ... -
Miss You Issues: The Search For Hope
Dear Miss U, My boyfriend is Brazilian, I am Spaniard. We met in January 2014 in Brazil, we talked on Skype for 3 months until he came to Europe to be closer to me a year ago. He lived in Dublin (Ireland) because was the only place he could work and study in Europe. This February he got lucky and started an internship here in Spain, in a city super close to mine (2 hours away). Finally we are almost without any distance! The problem is, he has a tourist visa, and his time being legal here i... -
Miss You Issues: A Thing About Visas
Dear Miss U, My boyfriend, and I just met. He is currently living in Germany while I'm in USA, he is from North Africa. Egypt was having some rough times, that's why he moved in Germany without any documents that can allow him to live in Germany permanently. It's hard for him honestly plus the language as well, we have talked about visiting each other I know for sure if he have to be the one coming to visit me it will take almost forever, at this point I'm confused because I'm the one who hav... -
Miss You Issues: Knowing Your Worth
Dear Miss U, I will refer to the significant other as VI for anon. VI and I have dated for 3 months about 5 years ago, but due to external factors with family, separated. We talked off and on through the years, but decided to rekindle a few months ago, and been dating for a month now. However, her job requires her to often work long shifts and move every 3 months, home for 3, etc. Before she moved about 2 weeks ago, we were already committed to being open with others and we've handled that well, ... -
Miss You Issues: Fine Wine
Dear Miss U, I have been with my bf for 7 months, and it's amazing. I love him really much and I see that he loves me too, but we only write on the internet with each other. I saw pictures of him and he saw mine. But he's too shy to webcam or even talk by voice. He said he will talk only by voice in this year, but for me, looks like he doesn't really want to, but what hurt's the most is that he only wants to see me in the next year or in 2 years, and it hurts because I really want him in my a... -
Miss You Issues: Self-sufficiency
Dear Miss U, My husband & I have spent 3 years in a LDR, having met online and never having lived together. We've had an endgame in place almost since the beginning that involved him moving to my country. Now that hope has been dashed as his application was rejected due to his criminal record, just a stupid mistake of his college days. While I am willing to move to his country instead there is an obstacle which is my child from a previous relationship. While I have full custody, the father has ... -
Miss You Issues: Hidden Meanings
Dear Miss U, Sorry to bother but this is a topic I've been thinking about a lot lately. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a while now but in a couple of months, he's going to college four hours away. A lot of people say we should break up because we are just in high school and that it would make me more unhappy than happy. I truly love him, and I don't want to lose him. But I don't want to hold him back from the whole college experience by having a girlfriend stuck in high school. What's your... -
Miss You Issues: The Virtue of Patience
Dear Miss U, First let me say that I have no doubt that she loves me, and is faithful to me. Our situation is this, two years ago we met and fell quickly in love. Her marriage ended over ten years ago, mine just a couple. I did know that she was living with her (should be) ex as room mates for a number of reasons. We discussed it thoroughly and I thought I understood. She said their children had a difficult time understanding that it was over between them and they get along fine as friends. Ho... -
Miss You Issues: Assessing The Options
Dear Miss U, I am in NY & my bf recently moved to India for a 6 month job. They want him to stay for another year. He "wants" to stay, but he also wants to continue the relationship. I love him. However I feel that he has a choice and he should want to come home. His desire to remain in India makes me feel I am not in the equation. I cry myself to sleep every night. I have expressed my concerns. He is a wonderful man with a great heart but perhaps he doesn't really love me?! He does not want to... -
Miss You Issues: You Could Talk About It
Dear Miss U, I'm a female soldier, who has been dating my boyfriend on and off for the past 4 years. This year we decided to take it seriously. When we were in high school I would always lead him in and then cut him off. I did this because I was afraid of what my friends would think about me dating him. You see my bf is a nerd, one of the things I love about him. Well after we graduated high school, I went in the army. When I was home on leave we started talking again and we started a Relations... -
Miss You Issues: Pending Moves
Dear Miss U,
I have been with my boyfriend for over 5 months. I'm a single parent of an 11 year old. He's a great man and we live 2 hours apart and he wants us to move in together. I've been at my job for 14 years. I'm scared? Insecure of leaving everything? What if it doesn't work out? I'm miserable away from him. I love him.
Patty. Dear Patty, Immediately I have to think, "why can't he move?" Are the reasons fair and respectful to you? Workwise, yes you'... -
Miss You Issues: Love & Time
Dear Miss U,
What do you do when you just miss them so much and can't do anything about it. I can't see him he's in a while other state. I know I'm young but I really really like him and I just want to hug him.
Kylie. Dear Kylie, Sometimes all you can do is accept that you can't do those things you want to do. As hard as that sounds, acceptance is empowering. All that moping will do is bring you down, after all, so accept those things you currently can not ... -
Miss You Issues: Once A Cheater...
Dear Miss U, I've been dating my LDR sweetheart for 2 years. He treats me like gold. I never knew a relationship could be this amazing or that I could be this happy every day. He's wonderful, and goes out of his way to make me feel loved, beautiful and appreciated. He treats me the way I always wished a boy would. We're crazy about each-other. I'm a lucky girl. My friends and family all adore him and say they've never seen me so happy. But I know that he cheated on his only other seriou... -
Miss You Issues: Big Efforts
Dear Miss U, We have been in a LDR for 4 years now, he comes from Germany and I come from Chile. A year ago I managed to finally get together for a long term (3 years), since I came to study my bachelor in Germany. However, 4 months after my arrival, my boyfriend left to Colombia for 1 year to do voluntary social service. He got a scholarship for it and felt bad for leaving me alone in a country completely new for me, but he left anyway but I'm happy he had that opportunity. During the tim... -
Miss You Issues: Obligations & Consequences
Dear Miss U, My ex and I had been in a 3 year LD relationship. He was from Ghana. We never got a chance to meet in person (due to financial issues/him getting denied visas) but we would always keep in contact via video chats, call, texts, emails, etc. Over time things started to change. The communication wasn't as great as it used to be, it started decreasing. I started getting frustrated due to the lack of communication and many failed attempts of us meeting (he was supposed to come to the U.S....
