Long distance relationship advice. Articles written by people in long distance relationships for people in long distance relationships.
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Miss You Issues: Is It Love?
Dear Miss U, I've been dating a guy that live on the other side of the ocean from where I live. We been dating for 4 months now and we love each other more than anything, we have talked over phone but never Skyped because I'm very shy. Now he had to leave for a month n I miss him so much. We're both Young but I know that he's the one I wanna spend my life with. I know almost everything about him now and he's perfect for me. Do you think this is going to last or am I jumping in too fast in to ... -
Miss You Issues: Equilibrium
Dear Miss U, My name is Jordan and my SO's name is Rachel. We met 10 months ago and we've loved each other ever since. We had arranged to meet one another in London (she lives in California, I live in Scotland) for July 15th. We had a big argument two weeks before the trip and we broke up. On the 15th of July, I realized I had a message in my inbox from her. She asked me to come and we spoke about it. I begged my mum to give me money (she's unemployed as she can't work because of a spina... -
Miss You Issues: Depression & U
Dear Miss U, We are high school sweethearts and decided to stay together despite attending different colleges. However, I'm stuck in my town while he goes to a great college in New York City. I couldn't go to UT Austun until next year due to financial issues. Anyway, the fact that I'm stuck here has been taking a toll on my emotional health along with other things. My parents haven't been encouraging and it's just been a hard semester so far for me and I've been needing so much support recentl... -
Miss You Issues: Mom's Over It.
Dear Miss U,
My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for about 5 months. He recently informed me that his parents are splitting up, and I don't know how I'm supposed to comfort him. We Skype, but as is obvious, Skype isn't exactly the same as physically being there. As I'm only 14, I don't exactly have enough money to go visit him. What should I do?
- Miles Don't Matter Dear Miles, Sometimes even if you're together in person there is very little you can ... -
Miss You Issues: Short Answer Questions
Dear Miss U, My SO and I met in Peru 2.5 years ago, and haven't stopped almost daily contact since. He's American, I'm Australian and we've seen each other 3 times since Peru. Neither of us has seen anyone else, nor wants to, but he also won't commit to any future. I've started the process to move over, but it will take a while. I had hoped he'd move here first, but there's always a reason (generally pretty valid). I don't know what to do!!! Should I keep trying? - Peruvian Attraction... -
Miss You Issues: She's Everything
Dear Miss U, My girlfriend and I met online and have been together for two years. I just graduated high school and have saved up enough money from working to see her in November. I am even not getting a job till after I see her cause I want to see her for a week which I know no job will give me. I love this girl to death. There is never a dull moment between us I love her more than anything in this world. We are so alike and perfect for each other. I can definitely see a future with he. S... -
Miss You Issues: In Need Of Explanation
Dear Miss U,
Hi, my name is Jeff and I being dating this girl name Chantal for about 4months. Everything was fine till she told me she don't have the energy to try no more, she told me what happened to her in the past with her ex. She tried to for 2 years and her ex promised her the same thing such as I won't leave you, I will always love you, and etc. she feel really insecure and I really need help from this because I really love her. Thanks!!! <3
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Miss You Issues: Safe Decisions
Dear Miss U, So I have been "dating" this guy from a different country. We have been talking for more than 3 years. This is the last year of waiting and in the summer to come I will go to his country to visit him... I really just want to know if you think this is safe to go see him alone. Any advice you would have for this situation? I'm really excited but it also seems really frightening. We do Skype every day though so I know he's not some rapist murder lol. Another thing is I though visiting fo... -
Miss You Issues: Selfless Support
Dear Miss U, I have been dating the love of my life for a year now. And we meet on Facebook. First we started to write as friends on 8.8.2013 then we just wrote on and something just clicked. But because he lives in Slovenia and I live in Germany we still haven't seen each other till December came and I went to Slovenia where I have my relatives and some family. My cousin was getting married in Slovenia and he is friends with my boyfriend. And then came the moment when we saw each other. We w... -
Miss You Issues: The End
Dear Miss U, Me and my SO have met in a volunteer abroad, he’s from Europe and I’m South American. We started seeing each other when I was just after 2 relationships in a row and I didn't want to start another relationship, but ended up staying together as he insisted he didn’t want to be casual. We kept on dating and even lived together, but from time to time I got confused and always told him about it (I wasn’t sure I wanted "to be" a couple). Now I’m back home and he's visited me once in ...
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Dear Miss U, I have been having a tough time going through the distance. I love my boyfriend with all my heart, and I want nothing to come between us, but that is very difficult with my parents. My parents are very strict, I can't make any decisions in my life, and when I try to make a decision, I am usually yelled at and hit. Making me more and more depressed. The worst that has ever happened is that I have been choked by my own father by a decision I tried to make. Me and my loved one talk on...
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December 13, 2015, 09:40 PM -
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Dear Miss U,
I recently realized I had to move away from my boyfriend of 3 months, I want to know if there's anything I need to know about starting a long distance relationship? My boyfriend knows and really wants it to work as well.
Zelda Dear Zelda, I feel the only thing people need to know about starting a long distance relationship is that you need to treat the relationship and your partner the same, regardless of proximity. That means making time for ea...-
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December 10, 2015, 10:21 PM -
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Dear Miss U, Me and my boyfriend have only ever met once and he proposed to me to be my girlfriend through phone calls. He's currently out of town because of his thesis and his work, and we haven't seen each other for half a year. We are both Cancers and very affectionate and I know he loves me, but sometimes he does this thing every month where he says that he is tired of our conversations everyday that seemed too monotone for him. He wants me to contribute more to the conversation and I swear...
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December 8, 2015, 05:27 AM -
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Dear Miss U, Recently you gave me advice on how to deal with the pain caused by such a large distance. It was fantastic advice and worked well but unfortunately I find myself in need of your advice again. I have been paying for a trip to India through an organization called world challenge and they are offering a once in a lifetime opportunity that could even help me get jobs etc. in the future, although it costs a lot of money and keeping up with payments can be stressful. I've also been lookin...
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November 30, 2015, 10:16 PM -
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Dear Miss U, My partner and I both want to move in together since we have both had our fair shares of long distance relationships. He is trying to find a job here with no luck (he hates his job). I might have found one for myself in his town, and his family is way more supportive than mine. I am going to a tour around that prospective job in his town but I am dreading it. My current bosses are so nice to me. They even got my partner an interview here. My biggest concern is they just fin...
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November 26, 2015, 10:06 PM -
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Dear Miss U, The distance just makes things hard to fix. It seems I'm being a crappy girlfriend. I haven't been the best lately. I feel it's because I have resentment held. We've discussed it & it just hasn't gotten any better feeling for me. He has issues with my sexual style compared to his, but it's mostly about what's wrong with me. The other night over Skype, I was telling him about my chiropractor appointments to help my chronic muscle tension. Since the beginning, we've disc...
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