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  • Miss You Issues: Talk About It

    Miss You Issues: Talk About It

    Dear Miss U, I've been dating my boyfriend for 8 months, and we have just started doing long distance, I'm in Sydney and he's still in NZ. I know that it's only the beginning of the LD side of the relationship, but being apart from him hurts a lot. I'm scared that the distance might lead to him wanting someone else. At the end of this year, if the distance is too hard, I want to transfer universities to be close to him. Not go straight into living together or anything, but at least being in th...
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  • Miss You Issues: Honest Advice

    Miss You Issues: Honest Advice

    Dear Miss U, I've been in a LDR for the past five years that I've been in a relationship. We've always had distance between us. Theirs constant fights when what we're really upset about is the fact that we're not together. All we've ever known is long distance but were both at our breaking points, where I can't take another time when I have to leave him. Especially knowing he's gonna deploy soon.. And guess what? We're married! The only problem is I'm a senior in high school, but he says the...
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  • Miss You Issues: Love & Study

    Miss You Issues: Love & Study

    Dear Miss U, My boyfriend and I met when I was volunteering in his South American country and have been in a long distance relationship for almost 1.5 years since I came back to the US. We made plans for him to come to the US because I started grad school and am here for another 4 years. However he is currently jobless and has no money and the visa process for him to come here is difficult. He also refuses to look for temporary jobs that aren't related to his career goals just to save up mon...
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  • Miss You Issues: Needing More Than Love

    Miss You Issues: Needing More Than Love

    Dear Miss U, I've been in a long distance relationship since the end of summer. At first we were only 500km apart, so I got to see my bf every two weeks on a regular basis. Last month, however, I moved to a different country for school. Now we're 5000 km apart and won't be able to see him 'til June. Despite the time zone difference, I make the time to talk to him every day. As nice as it is to communicate with him daily, I'm starting to miss the intimacy. I've been suggesting that we sho...
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  • Miss You Issues: Priorities

    Miss You Issues: Priorities

    Dear Miss U, I am a junior in college and my loved one is still living in my home town. I have lost support for the relationship from family members who see the struggle it is to stay together and stay happy. One of his biggest concerns is that he is not number one on my list of priorities. He says if he were number one that I would be there with him. My initial plan is to move back home, but I have a year and a half left in school. How can I show him that he really is important without giving up o...
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  • Miss You Issues: Bad Reactions

    Miss You Issues: Bad Reactions

    Dear Miss U, So my LDR girlfriend and I have been together for six months now and I couldn't be any happier with her. But, one of my biggest things I have a problem with is my jealousy and it gets bad at times because I get jealous of other males that get to see my girlfriend every day. She is the exact same way with me, if she seen a picture me with ANY other female she'll get p'd off. For ex. The beginning of my junior year I took my cousin Sam to homecoming because she didn't have a date and ...
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  • Miss You Issues: It's Probably Worth It.

    Miss You Issues: It's Probably Worth It.

    Hiya, my question is: do you think it's worth it?? I am from the UK and my boyfriend and I have been dating for four years. Our families are from close by but we have always lived apart in different cities, first when we were at uni, the when I was traveling and now he is doing a PhD. He's writing his thesis now and we talk about moving in together in September when it's all over. I'm scared because it will totally change the dynamic from being used to not seeing him during the week and then seeing...
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  • Miss You Issues: Keeping The Faith

    Miss You Issues: Keeping The Faith

    Dear Miss U, Me and my girl met on a site called Omegle about a year ago. We started talking every day quite soon after I met her, texting her via Gmail, talking via Facebook. I started to like her quite fast. One night, under the supporting talk of my friends, I took my shot and asked her if she wanted a relationship with me. I'm glad she said yes, since then I found out she is the love of my life, my first and, hopefully, only girlfriend. Yet we live almost 3500 miles away, myself in The Neth...
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  • Miss You Issues: A Lack Of Easy

    Miss You Issues: A Lack Of Easy

    Dear Miss U, Can I have some help on how you guys managed to see your other, I'm really in love with her and well I don't have a job at the moment but am doing training next month hopefully will end up in me getting a job as a lifeguard. By the way I live in England and her Colombia. I can tell my parents will NOT help me in any way get there (Brilliant) so I'm on my own. How do you suggest I can make this easier for myself? I want to go there for a month just me and her in an Apartment. Just genera...
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  • Miss You Issues: Career vs. Love

    Miss You Issues: Career vs. Love

    Dear Miss U, I was at a very low point in my life and I wanted to feel good about myself again. I joined this chat room where I would talk to boys all over the world. They'd ask for pictures, send pictures then I'd never speak to them again and that's how I wanted it. I really did feel better about myself, I felt in control, I felt beautiful but I knew it was wrong. I was disrespecting myself so I stopped. I went to delete & block all of the boys, except one. Bradley. Something about him caught ...
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  • Miss You Issues: Write It Out
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    Dear Miss U, I have been having a tough time going through the distance. I love my boyfriend with all my heart, and I want nothing to come between us, but that is very difficult with my parents. My parents are very strict, I can't make any decisions in my life, and when I try to make a decision, I am usually yelled at and hit. Making me more and more depressed. The worst that has ever happened is that I have been choked by my own father by a decision I tried to make. Me and my loved one talk on...
    December 13, 2015, 09:40 PM
  • Miss You Issues: The Dawn Of LDR
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    Dear Miss U,

    I recently realized I had to move away from my boyfriend of 3 months, I want to know if there's anything I need to know about starting a long distance relationship? My boyfriend knows and really wants it to work as well.

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    Dear Zelda, I feel the only thing people need to know about starting a long distance relationship is that you need to treat the relationship and your partner the same, regardless of proximity. That means making time for ea...
    December 10, 2015, 10:21 PM
  • Miss You Issues: Talking It Up
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    Dear Miss U, Me and my boyfriend have only ever met once and he proposed to me to be my girlfriend through phone calls. He's currently out of town because of his thesis and his work, and we haven't seen each other for half a year. We are both Cancers and very affectionate and I know he loves me, but sometimes he does this thing every month where he says that he is tired of our conversations everyday that seemed too monotone for him. He wants me to contribute more to the conversation and I swear...
    December 8, 2015, 05:27 AM
  • Miss You Issues: Life Or Love?
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    Dear Miss U, Recently you gave me advice on how to deal with the pain caused by such a large distance. It was fantastic advice and worked well but unfortunately I find myself in need of your advice again. I have been paying for a trip to India through an organization called world challenge and they are offering a once in a lifetime opportunity that could even help me get jobs etc. in the future, although it costs a lot of money and keeping up with payments can be stressful. I've also been lookin...
    November 30, 2015, 10:16 PM
  • Miss You Issues: Decisions
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    Dear Miss U, My partner and I both want to move in together since we have both had our fair shares of long distance relationships. He is trying to find a job here with no luck (he hates his job). I might have found one for myself in his town, and his family is way more supportive than mine. I am going to a tour around that prospective job in his town but I am dreading it. My current bosses are so nice to me. They even got my partner an interview here. My biggest concern is they just fin...
    November 26, 2015, 10:06 PM
  • Miss You Issues: Fat Shaming, Pregnancy & U.
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    Dear Miss U, The distance just makes things hard to fix. It seems I'm being a crappy girlfriend. I haven't been the best lately. I feel it's because I have resentment held. We've discussed it & it just hasn't gotten any better feeling for me. He has issues with my sexual style compared to his, but it's mostly about what's wrong with me. The other night over Skype, I was telling him about my chiropractor appointments to help my chronic muscle tension. Since the beginning, we've disc...
    November 23, 2015, 04:17 AM
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