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  • Miss You Issues: Disclosure

    Miss You Issues: Disclosure

    Dear Miss U, My boyfriend and I are very much in love and we have started to talk about a future together. Things have gotten steadily more serious and seems to be progressing nicely. He has an older sister who lives a long distance away from him, she is his only close relative. He has often told me that she is the only person that he confides in and he tells her everything that is important in his life. Yet he is keeping our relationship a secret from her. I have been to visit him a...
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  • Miss You Issues: No Regrets

    Miss You Issues: No Regrets

    Dear Miss U, I have been in a LDR with my lovely girlfriend for almost 2 years now. We started as friends and grew feelings for each other over time, I knew from the start she was born mute and that never made me look at her differently. We have our Ups and downs dealing with distance of course. I've asked about sending packages\letters\flowers ect and her response was money being an issue (which of course I understand) and also her being in a housing program (section 8) would be difficult i...
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  • Miss You Issues: Unfaithfulness & U

    Miss You Issues: Unfaithfulness & U

    Dear Miss U, I am from India. Me and my other half have been dating for over five years, things were always good between us until we had to start a long distance relationship. When, recently, I checked one of his social networks, I found that he had been chatting with random stranger girls until 3 AM. He would ask them for their numbers, would ask them if they were single, call them names that were meant to be only for me(well that's what he said that he only used them for me, and it really...
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  • Miss You Issues: The Signs Say

    Miss You Issues: The Signs Say

    Dear Miss U, I have noticed recently that my boyfriend has really pulled away from me. We used to speak on the phone at least 2 or 3 times a week as well as continuous texting throughout the day. Over the last couple of months, I am lucky if I get more than 6 texts a day from him and well the phone calls, they don't exist anymore. I try really hard and ask him if we can catch up on the phone and he never responds. He says he loves me and misses me and drives him nuts being away fr...
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  • Miss You Issues: Quick Questions

    Miss You Issues: Quick Questions

    Dear Miss U, I am in relation with a guy 7 years elder than me. He is too reserved and not expressive. He doesn't call or text often and doesn't make any effort to speak to me or come and see me. I'm a girl who loves to be around him and spend most of my time with him. He doesn't know to console me when I'm in despair but he just tells that he is there for me but I haven't felt it till now. He is handsome and thin, I'm normal and fat. Everybody keeps telling that he is too much for me but I ha...
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  • Miss You Issues: Time To Give Up?

    Miss You Issues: Time To Give Up?

    Dear Miss U, Me and my loved boy met at the student exchange programme. We dated for 3 months and took the distance. After both of us came back to our countries, he visited me, and soon I am going to fly to him. Everything is great, really. He is the first guy I take as something serious. We don't doubt, we don't fight. But, to the point. Though we communicate every day, I am often trying to make him "do something together" even if we are away from each other. Like... play some game, or w...
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  • Miss You Issues: Guys Are Worried

    Miss You Issues: Guys Are Worried

    Dear Miss U, This relationship has been the best relationship we've ever had as well as the longest. I remember the first 8 or so months we were completely pulled in about making the distance work, we made promises to always stay together no matter what & that such. I live in North Carolina, she lives in Wisconsin. I went to see her for the first time back in April, it wasn't long but it was the happiest we've ever been in our entire lives. Then summer came. We both knew before summer even...
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  • Miss You Issues: No Known Intent

    Miss You Issues: No Known Intent

    Dear Miss U, I met my guy, M, through his sister-she goes to my Zumba classes and I've known her for a year...she thought we'd make a good match. When we first started talking he was literally all over me...I couldn't breathe without him knowing about it....he was sweet supportive and always there for me....we have the same goals and outlooks in life and our plans for the future are pretty much exactly the same... there were times our personalities and thoughts were so similar we'd shock o...
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  • Miss You Issues: There Is No Pause Button

    Miss You Issues: There Is No Pause Button

    Dear Miss U, I've been dating my boyfriend since we were seniors in high school. I care about him a lot, and he's been one of my kindest friends; he always knows what to say to me when I'm feeling low and when we see each other, we always have a great time together. But I've been having doubts for a while. It started after we graduated, and he got a new job. We were still living in the same city at the time, but he asked me not to call, text, or try to visit him for a while because he was ...
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  • Miss You Issues: The Morning Always Comes

    Miss You Issues: The Morning Always Comes

    Dear Miss U, My boyfriend and I got into a pretty big fight for only the second time in the 3 & 1/2 years we've been dating, and it was about him being negative. We were playing a game together and I got upset about him being so negative. Now, this has happened before, but not like this. He ended up getting so upset over hurting me, even though it wasn't bad, that he thought he was a bad person. Now he wants to change and not be so negative, but in order to do that, he's going to be talking ...
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  • Miss You Issues: Write It Out
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    Dear Miss U, I have been having a tough time going through the distance. I love my boyfriend with all my heart, and I want nothing to come between us, but that is very difficult with my parents. My parents are very strict, I can't make any decisions in my life, and when I try to make a decision, I am usually yelled at and hit. Making me more and more depressed. The worst that has ever happened is that I have been choked by my own father by a decision I tried to make. Me and my loved one talk on...
    December 13, 2015, 08:40 PM
  • Miss You Issues: The Dawn Of LDR
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    Dear Miss U,

    I recently realized I had to move away from my boyfriend of 3 months, I want to know if there's anything I need to know about starting a long distance relationship? My boyfriend knows and really wants it to work as well.

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    Dear Zelda, I feel the only thing people need to know about starting a long distance relationship is that you need to treat the relationship and your partner the same, regardless of proximity. That means making time for ea...
    December 10, 2015, 09:21 PM
  • Miss You Issues: Talking It Up
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    Dear Miss U, Me and my boyfriend have only ever met once and he proposed to me to be my girlfriend through phone calls. He's currently out of town because of his thesis and his work, and we haven't seen each other for half a year. We are both Cancers and very affectionate and I know he loves me, but sometimes he does this thing every month where he says that he is tired of our conversations everyday that seemed too monotone for him. He wants me to contribute more to the conversation and I swear...
    December 8, 2015, 04:27 AM
  • Miss You Issues: Life Or Love?
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    Dear Miss U, Recently you gave me advice on how to deal with the pain caused by such a large distance. It was fantastic advice and worked well but unfortunately I find myself in need of your advice again. I have been paying for a trip to India through an organization called world challenge and they are offering a once in a lifetime opportunity that could even help me get jobs etc. in the future, although it costs a lot of money and keeping up with payments can be stressful. I've also been lookin...
    November 30, 2015, 09:16 PM
  • Miss You Issues: Decisions
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    Dear Miss U, My partner and I both want to move in together since we have both had our fair shares of long distance relationships. He is trying to find a job here with no luck (he hates his job). I might have found one for myself in his town, and his family is way more supportive than mine. I am going to a tour around that prospective job in his town but I am dreading it. My current bosses are so nice to me. They even got my partner an interview here. My biggest concern is they just fin...
    November 26, 2015, 09:06 PM
  • Miss You Issues: Fat Shaming, Pregnancy & U.
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    Dear Miss U, The distance just makes things hard to fix. It seems I'm being a crappy girlfriend. I haven't been the best lately. I feel it's because I have resentment held. We've discussed it & it just hasn't gotten any better feeling for me. He has issues with my sexual style compared to his, but it's mostly about what's wrong with me. The other night over Skype, I was telling him about my chiropractor appointments to help my chronic muscle tension. Since the beginning, we've disc...
    November 23, 2015, 03:17 AM
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