I think it's 100% normal to feel scared when getting ready to close the distance. Not only are you moving to a new place (which is something you've only done for 6 months), but you are getting married, and going to live with someone you've never lived with before. I am always scared/nervous/excited when I move to a new place and I was even more so when I was closing the distance. There are so many unknowns and it's a lot to deal with.
Like everyone said, focus on the positives. You've got so many exciting changes coming up. But don't beat yourself up for being nervous either. To be honest, you probably will lose some friends. That's normal. The friendships that really matter will adjust to the new situation. Finding a new job, new friends, new church may take some time but you'll get there. Where in Utah does your SO live? I'm from Utah originally and, for the most part, people are really friendly. Even when I would move back there for summers during college, I found it pretty easy to make friends (compared to other places).
Try to focus on the positives and the things that you can control. And believe that the other things will work out over time.
Like everyone said, focus on the positives. You've got so many exciting changes coming up. But don't beat yourself up for being nervous either. To be honest, you probably will lose some friends. That's normal. The friendships that really matter will adjust to the new situation. Finding a new job, new friends, new church may take some time but you'll get there. Where in Utah does your SO live? I'm from Utah originally and, for the most part, people are really friendly. Even when I would move back there for summers during college, I found it pretty easy to make friends (compared to other places).
Try to focus on the positives and the things that you can control. And believe that the other things will work out over time.
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