In the end, you're going to do what's best for you. I've refrained from replying to your posts before, because I didn't want to seem like a Debbie Downer. I'm glad you at least read what I had to say. My point is really this: you have to be okay with yourself before you can be okay with someone else. And that's why I suggest time off. Relationships are hard, and if each person is also dealing with personal issues, it makes it even harder. I wasn't in a relationship for years because I needed to get myself together. I didn't need anyone else's baggage when I already had my own.
I really hope you and your SO find a good place.
I really hope you and your SO find a good place.
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