Who wears the pants in the relationship?

[snow_girl]

Speaking about pants, I always found it funny how him and I could swap jeans, we wear exactly the same size. Except it all hangs a bit loose on him and not so much on me...lol

When I was home I bought him a pair of jeans and I wasn't sure they were going to fit him so he told me to try them on and see if they fit like his others did (I dressed up in his clothes once lol) I also have a slightly loose fitting pair of jeans and I met up with him one lunch hour and the first thing he asked was if I was wearing his pants...I was like are you kidding? Why on earth would I wear your pants out in public?!

[Tooki]

She does. Estonian women...

[leonsfangirl]

My SO and I share the pants!

I can't think of an occasion where he's flat out told me no and visa versa, we compromise. He jokes that i nag him but it's only because i care. :P

[sarahjane1992]

I'm the boss - I just let him think he's in charge, ha!

Nah, I'm joking I'd say we're pretty equal, to be honest. We do have different strengths and weaknesses though, so I'm happy to defer to his judgement concerning matters I know less about and vice versa.

We're in the same boat. I have the stronger personality. I'm the boss! haha We're very different but very much alike. We balance each other out. He's a more logical thinker and I'm a more emotional one. When I get stressed, he calms me down. He's a source of calm in my life! <3

[Hollandia]

We consider ourselves to be partners mostly. I do feel that after being the full on boss, or almost mommy to my ex for all the time that I kinda enjoy my SO's old school aspect of looking at some things. When push comes to shove, either of us might put a foot down, but I make darn sure to not sweat the small stuff and let that roll off my back. If it means enough to me he will usually do what I prefer or we will find a compromise or both just agree to go do our own things or put the discussion up for more serious debate.

LOL..............his actual pants. I could swim in them. Sometimes I feel like a smurf next to him.

[Remy]

My girlfriend does, definitely. We're actually in a [consensual!] Dom/sub relationship.

I could probably fit in her actual pants, if I had a belt and them trimmed up quite a lot since she's WAAAY taller than me. XD

[Filly]

My SO and I share the pants!

I can't think of an occasion where he's flat out told me no and visa versa, we compromise. He jokes that i nag him but it's only because i care. :P

My SO and I just had this same conversation he said I complain a lot and told him I only do so because I care
We share the pants in our relationship but him being a L.E.O sometimes makes him want to just take charge. If its not super important I let him. If it is then he'll have is right leg in one side and I'll have my left leg in the other cause we'll be sharing that baby.

[Chris516]

Neither of us, and both of us.

[Bluejay Belle]

Naturally, he has a more leader-type personality and tends to wear the pants. However, I wear the pumps and jump in whenever necessary!

[conejita_hada]

On scales of personalities, we're both uniquely our own type of compromiser although I'm probably a little more assertive with bringing up different topics.

[Mims27]

She teases me saying she's the boss in the relationship and I tell her I let her think that but that I'm really the boss! lol
But really, we are pretty much equals. We make decisions togther and rationalise mostly everything.

[melarie]

I think we're pretty equal. There are some things he puts his foot down about (like not wanting him to get me a present, or wanting a billion different pets) but other than that, we figure things out together.

[chizatlauren]

The nice thing about my SO is he asks for my opinion first before deciding on anything. I love how he consults me if he should go to this place, or if he should buy this stuff. I do think I am the one who makes the final decision on most mundane things.

[snow]

We are in a consensual Dom/sub relationship so it shouldn't surprise that he's the one in charge.
When it comes to big decisions it's usually him who decides what to do, but we don't ever do it if I think differently!!

[kikidee]

My SO and I are both super indecisive and I hate making decisions or planning exactly what were going to do because I don't want to be blamed if something goes wrong xD He'll more often take charge easier, so I'd say him. Thankfully.