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    #46
    I always think about this and never really know the actual answer. Usually I presume I do, because I'm more forward-thinking and like to make plans of execution, whereas he is more laid back. But there are times that his stress-free attitude allows for more of an open-minded approach to problems and ideas than my rigid way of doing things.

    I like to think of all possible situations and ideas, whereas he takes it by ear. We usually make decision together. I give him my input and he gives me his, but ultimately it's the person's decision and the other just supports them.

    There are some occasions in which I completely wear the pants, however. I blatantly told him that housing decor and furnishings is my thing and he just agreed :P But when it comes to sexual things he's more pants-wearing. (Or should I say not. :P)

    First met: June 2012
    Became Committed: June 04, 2012
    Entered an LDR: July 01, 2012
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      #47
      He makes the final decision. I like it like that.

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        #48
        Well, we are both independent, I do sometimes cave and let her "win" some situations but we are equal, I don't let her walk all over me and likewise, we speak our minds and that's how it is, when it comes to decisions however she is useless so I have to make them all, and the plans etc lol.

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