I hate him/her today cause...

[iakai]

I don't think this thread is ridiculous, there are moments when I'm seriously like "what on earth are you kidding me lsj#@348wrjglk!! rawrrrr!" at my SO, I'm sure people know how to phrase their post according to the degree of annoyances.

Regarding people being overwhelmed by the positive things, I don't think it's a matter of disliking it. It's more like sometimes when we're feeling down or when the distance seem to never end, and we see a bunch of closing the distance posts and it's just like "mannnnnn is this ever gonna end for me". It doesn't mean we're not happy for the people going CD, it's still exciting and gives hope! But like Eclaire, I was actually feeling the negative vibe a couples of weeks ago too :P
But chill people this is a place to share feelings so there will be the happy and the not so happy!

3 or 4 days ago I would have posted here, but today I'm fine. Who knows what the future will bring

[Zephii]

I hate my SO a little bit today because he's been promising to clean the kitchen all week, but he only ever does one load of dishes then gets distracted by something else. He refuses to dry the dishes with a tea towel and thus the kitchen never actually gets clean. Ahh!!

[HollzHeartsChris]

I'm annoyed at my SO's parents cause they've taken all his crap again and just made it impossible for me to talk to him for the next 3 days at least. FML T.T

[Jazi]

I hate (not really) my SO today because he is related to THE MOST ridiculous people on the planet! I can't stand his family ugh. they are so 'elitist', I doubt I will ever get accepted into their tight little family unit.. my SO finds it difficult and uncomfortable to even TRY to have a proper conversation with them about anything important..

but of course I have to smile and pretend I love the people.. even though I know they don't even like me!

and I care that they don't like me.. I try so hard to be nice and on my best behavior whenever I've been around them/spoken to them, if they were anyone else I wouldve given up by now and not care.

ughhhhhhhhhhhhh rjhkjhksrjgkjfhsjwejgsf

[Yaaamiii]

oh no problem! As I said I didn't mean that you should write why you hate your SO- it's just that I'm sure that some of you are upset because he/she did something..and with this thread you can write what is bothering you.. so you see that a relationship is not always "sunshine" and "honeymoon"...

Nah I getcha XD jeje. That's how I understood it after I read everyone else's posts. :P

Thinking about it, I think this thread is kinda funny. XD

[loveknowsnodistance27]

I'm bothered by my SO today because he told me last night he'd come over today and he now says he can't. =[

[Ted]

Thanks! 👍

[monkerluv]

I am so upset with my SO because before I moved (Saturday, May 5th) he promised me that we would talk all the time. So far I have only recieved two text messages and nothing for straight 24 hours. I even called him and he didn't even pick up. I am really just wanting to be all grrrrrr I would have too but his voicemail box was full.

[Haley53]

I am so upset with my SO because before I moved (Saturday, May 5th) he promised me that we would talk all the time. So far I have only recieved two text messages and nothing for straight 24 hours. I even called him and he didn't even pick up. I am really just wanting to be all grrrrrr I would have too but his voicemail box was full.

I know this thread is more for venting than advice, but assuming you were close distance before and now are long distance/long distance again, I'd give him some time. May 5th was only two days ago and while I can understand your want to talk with him, especially more than two text messages, he's probably dealing with you being gone/being gone again on top of trying to get used to there being a new routine in place. I'd think about giving it a week or two, maybe three, before shouting at him.

[BlueCat]

I was slightly annoyed, but more surprised that I didn't get a text from my SO today, telling me he was concerned about me. I hit a kangaroo driving home last night and I sent him an e-mail letting him know it happened and telling him I was ok. I guess I expected some level of concern from him. lol. It's a really stupid thing to have been annoyed about, but it just surprised me, I thought he'd have a lot to say on the subject :P

[one-more-reason]

this isn't about my SO but about long distance in general... my alarm didn't go off this morning so I slept in too late and therefore missed my chance to talk to my SO this morning before he had to go to bed. stupid time differences. stupid phone. >:[

[lyonsgirl]

I often tell my SO that I don't like him. I love him, but I just don't like him right now.

Saturday nights are my Bible study nights. He had to get up early (5am early) and so he planned to go to bed at a reasonable hour. NBD. I texted him about 8pm my time (9pm his) and said, "I'll be home soon. Talk to you then?" No response, but I wasn't worried. He misses texts sometimes. So I called him about 8:20 when I got home and left a message. He texted me the next morning and said, "I went to bed early, sorry I missed you." I sent him a text when I won't up, "It's fine... just let me know next time before you sleep, since I'm nuts and was concerned."

Frustrates me so much when he does this.... makes me feel like he's forgotten about me sometimes. (Although I know he hasn't.) grr.

Also, I dislike him today for the same reason I love him. He won't propose because he can't afford a ring.

[kteire]

EDIT: I felt bad after posting this, so I'm deleting it. As soon as I posted it, he made it better, and I would rather forget it now. Sorry!

[fehe001]

I don't feel like she is spending enough time with me or making any sacrifices, she is always busy with studying or friends or something, and when she has a free afternoon or something, she just goes on Tumblr, or starts watching tv series or reading anything but nothing that would make me happier or we could do together and I don't understand why, I always stop/postpone things when she finally has some time to call me, why cant she just wait with some things a bit? I feel like she doesn't love me and only calls me when I ask her too. This is just in general

Today because we decided to read a book together (so much effort, pain and hurt feeling on my side to make this happen oh God) and she said when she gets home she will have to study and she may have some time to call me tonight, she said she wants to read the book (we started a few days ago) so I said we can read it together, she was really happy because of that, so we decided to call each other tonight and read the book together on Skype, so today I ask her what she is doing, and she replies that she is in bed reading the book, and it hurt me because she said she has to study maths but instead she is reading the book that we were supposed to read together later on. and I know It's just a stupid book but it hurts me so much, couldn't she wait just a little longer? Just a few hours? I waited for weeks now to watch a tv series because she said she wanted to watch it with me, but then she cant wait a few hours to read a book with me? Why?
Hope I make sense

[fehe001]

And now she has a stomach ache so she wont even call me