We Broke Up (previously Eclaire)

[ThePiedPiper]

Thank you everyone. I'm so reminded of why I love this community.

[eveningsky]

I'm shocked too. I remember you mentioning something about it but I was sure that things would work out. I'm sorry they didn't.
Glad you're sticking around though.

[Zapookie]

I'm so sorry about what has happened. I have always valued you as a member of LFAD, so I'm really glad you're still gonna hang out here. Stay strong

[ThePiedPiper]

Thank you everyone, but really, like I said, everyone saying they feel shocked is making me feel more guilty than anything. There were a lot of signs to say this one wasn't going to work, but of course, hope is the last to die in any situation like this and so I never really jumped to let everyone in to such private information I didn't want to believe was real.

[TwoThree]

I'm sorry to hear this, Eclaire. You were always an inspiration for me since I joined this forum and always looked forward to your responses in threads that asked advice, so I'm really glad you're sticking around. Though if things get too tough at some point I hope you'll take needed time off. I know you'll make a full recovery in time

If it's any help, I'm not really shocked

[Lilly9886]

I'm sorry to hear this, Eclaire. You were always an inspiration for me since I joined this forum and always looked forward to your responses in threads that asked advice, so I'm really glad you're sticking around. Though if things get too tough at some point I hope you'll take needed time off. I know you'll make a full recovery in time

If it's any help, I'm not really shocked

Pretty much this!! I'm really sorry that it didn't work out!! And I hope that you'll be happy with whatever life is bringing you! I'm sure you'll be fine, you seem like a strong woman to me!!

[lademoiselle]

You're a brave, strong young woman whose insight is invaluable to many. You're part of the furniture of this community in my eyes; it wouldn't be the same without you, so I'm glad you're going to stay. I'm really sorry for what you've gone through, but I hope you can find peace soon. I'll be thinking of you <3

[Oldblighty]

I haven't been on this forum long but always enjoyed reading what you had to say, the advice you gave to posters was always great, so I am glad your sticking around because you have much more to give. I hope you get through this tough time and you come out a stronger individual because of it....

[Dziubka]

I'm sorry
Break ups are never easy, but sometimes it's for the better.
Like others said you seem like a very strong woman and you're going to be fine. Take all the time you need to heal and recover.

[digitalfever]

Shocking!

I'm glad your handling it well and I hope he respects your wishes. Best of luck and I'm glad your not leaving the forum!

[MissButterfly]

I'm so sorry to hear this... It's really good that you're taking this step for yourself though, even though it must have been so hard, it's probably for the better in the end. You come across as such a strong person, it's always great to read your advice and I'm really glad to have you stick around here. *hugs!* and I wish you all the best! We're all here for you of course

[kteire]

I am very sorry to hear about it, although honestly I'm not entirely shocked. I don't mean that to sound like a negative, only that I had the impression from some of your posts in the past little while that you were definitely putting in most of the effort and not getting much back from him. I am sad for you for the break up, but you have such a good head on your shoulders that I know you'll be ok

Glad you're sticking around, I always love your posts.

[Tanja]

I'm sorry to hear this. It's always hard having to admit that despite the endless love and will to fight things just won't work out. You'll be fine in time, I promise. Glad you're sticking around

[CynicalQuixotic]

Oh, darling.

I don't mean to hijack your thread, but my relationship just ended in a similar way. There was emotional abuse involved--I don't know if it was the same for you (I'm assuming and hoping not!), but, if you need to talk, I'm a PM away. Lots of love.

[lucybelle]

I'm so sorry to hear this. I know you fought so hard for this relationship to work out.

But I do think you made the right call. Let yourself heal and move forward.

Glad you'll be sticking around!