Originally posted by digitalfever
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She brought up attractiveness and I made several other examples of how a partner can lose that besides weight. It is pretty easy to connect the dots and realize that if you read my post without an attitude. I don't think it really matters or not whether the SO is to blame for his weight gain. She is afraid to lose an attraction to him over weight. That is a physical thing. The other examples were as well. I brought them up so that she could soul search and make that decision if they are deal breakers for her and if him never losing that weight or gaining more is.
Your feelings and my feelings are not what matter, I asked the OP how they would feel if any of these other situations happened. She needs to decide if he does become less atrractive to her if she wants to be with him.
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