From my previous thread;
‘I’m probably having one of those days (4days) where I really sit and think about how people act towards me or how I’m there for their convenience (that’s how it feels sometimes) and I may be wrong.
The reason I guess this all came to light is because my SO is kind of making me feel I’m not his main priority right now I kind of don’t know how to explain it really’
This morning I woke up with a message from his best friend Scott (who he spent the weekend with when he went back to NH for the weekend just gone) The message read something along the lines of “Message me when you get up Louise I need to talk to you about something” Of course as soon as I got up I messaged him to find out what was up as I knew it must have been something bad for him to message me. He then proceeded to tell me that my SO made out with a girl at the cabin over the weekend. He said my SO was drunk and when this girl walked past them at the lake my SOs reaction was ‘she’s cute’ and then later on that night my SO apparently made out with her. My SO told Scott his best friend and Scott let it go thinking my SO was just showing off because he was drunk.
Then last night/tonight 5th September (for everyone time difference) Scott face timed my SO and again asked my SO what the deal was with the girl at the Cabin and my SO told him to the exact same thing ‘I made out with The cute girl in the bikini with the hot ass back up at the cabin’ In shock Scott he’s friend told my SO that its best that he confesses to me what happened over the weekend, My SO then got mad with him and put the phone down and that’s when Scott had messaged me saying we needed to talk.
Now for the situation the approach to it I thought was best was just too kindly and calmly text him simply asking if anything had happened up at the cabin the weekend ( I texted him because it was 12pm he’s time and I thought he would just text me when he woke up for work) My SO said nothing, I explained he’s best friend and he’s best friends girlfriend had told me the above ^^^^ .. He denied everything.
A lot is going through my head at the moment; I don’t know who to believe. I can hear you all now shaking your head saying ‘you should trust your so’ but it makes it difficult when he’s BEST friend has told me this, I mean why would he’s best friend lie about something like that .. if he was lying?
I did face time with my SO after the text message I sent him went through, and it stayed calmed surprisingly he wasn’t angry that he’s best friend just LIED (if Scott is lying) he stayed calm but also looked sorry by he’s body language, You know when someone’s nervous and their mouths dry up and it’s hard for them to talk, Yeah he was like that. I told him I would speak to him after work and he said ‘ I feel like when we get off the phone our relationship is going to fall apart’ I just said he needs to call his best friend and his girlfriend and sort this out then IF Scott is lying about this because this is a very SICK joke!
Ummmmm... am I really going down this road again with being cheated on? Is his friend really that mean to lie? Is this actually happening? What the hell do I do next? I FEEL NUMB!!!!!
‘I’m probably having one of those days (4days) where I really sit and think about how people act towards me or how I’m there for their convenience (that’s how it feels sometimes) and I may be wrong.
The reason I guess this all came to light is because my SO is kind of making me feel I’m not his main priority right now I kind of don’t know how to explain it really’
This morning I woke up with a message from his best friend Scott (who he spent the weekend with when he went back to NH for the weekend just gone) The message read something along the lines of “Message me when you get up Louise I need to talk to you about something” Of course as soon as I got up I messaged him to find out what was up as I knew it must have been something bad for him to message me. He then proceeded to tell me that my SO made out with a girl at the cabin over the weekend. He said my SO was drunk and when this girl walked past them at the lake my SOs reaction was ‘she’s cute’ and then later on that night my SO apparently made out with her. My SO told Scott his best friend and Scott let it go thinking my SO was just showing off because he was drunk.
Then last night/tonight 5th September (for everyone time difference) Scott face timed my SO and again asked my SO what the deal was with the girl at the Cabin and my SO told him to the exact same thing ‘I made out with The cute girl in the bikini with the hot ass back up at the cabin’ In shock Scott he’s friend told my SO that its best that he confesses to me what happened over the weekend, My SO then got mad with him and put the phone down and that’s when Scott had messaged me saying we needed to talk.
Now for the situation the approach to it I thought was best was just too kindly and calmly text him simply asking if anything had happened up at the cabin the weekend ( I texted him because it was 12pm he’s time and I thought he would just text me when he woke up for work) My SO said nothing, I explained he’s best friend and he’s best friends girlfriend had told me the above ^^^^ .. He denied everything.
A lot is going through my head at the moment; I don’t know who to believe. I can hear you all now shaking your head saying ‘you should trust your so’ but it makes it difficult when he’s BEST friend has told me this, I mean why would he’s best friend lie about something like that .. if he was lying?
I did face time with my SO after the text message I sent him went through, and it stayed calmed surprisingly he wasn’t angry that he’s best friend just LIED (if Scott is lying) he stayed calm but also looked sorry by he’s body language, You know when someone’s nervous and their mouths dry up and it’s hard for them to talk, Yeah he was like that. I told him I would speak to him after work and he said ‘ I feel like when we get off the phone our relationship is going to fall apart’ I just said he needs to call his best friend and his girlfriend and sort this out then IF Scott is lying about this because this is a very SICK joke!
Ummmmm... am I really going down this road again with being cheated on? Is his friend really that mean to lie? Is this actually happening? What the hell do I do next? I FEEL NUMB!!!!!
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