I live in NH while she lives in GA and I'll try to make this short. We met two years ago and in that span of two years things were pretty bumpy. She wasn't the best girlfriend nor was I the best boyfriend. We split up a few times and tried to go our separate ways but we always ended up back with each other. We recently got back together (a month and a half ago) because she came back and apologized for everything that has happened in the past and told me that she realized she only wanted to be with me. Since then things have been better than they ever were except for the past week or so.
Last week she didn't talk to me for three days because shes working on renovating a house and recently started a job, which I can understand. She then went on a trip with her church from Sunday until Friday (two days ago) and hasn't said anything since Monday. She told me she would try to talk to me but that never happened. I've tried contacting her but she hasn't read any of my messages since Wednesday. Her sister told me she'd be home Friday night but she hasn't even read my messages or said anything.
And a little background on us. I'm pretty clingy, but I've been better lately, and tend to overreact sometimes while she gets stressed out easily and has had relationship problems in the past with people trying to control her. I've told her that I really dislike it when I don't get to talk to her for long periods of time and this has happened before. When this happened before she would ignore me for a week and have to think about things and us in general. She promised me and told me again and again that that would never happen this time.
Is this a cause for concern? She has hardly been on Facebook, hasn't read my messages for a while, hasn't been on Xbox, hasn't messaged another friend, etc..?
Should I try to contact her sister, a friend, or leave it alone for now and see what happens?
Am I overreacting because of what has happened before?
Should I send a message telling her how I feel or not say anything?
I don't understand why this happens and she hasn't blocked or deleted me as far as I know. I mean, I guess I can understand not talking to me while she's at camp because she's supervising younger kids in a different state but is there really a reason to not say anything Friday night, Saturday, and today so far?
Last week she didn't talk to me for three days because shes working on renovating a house and recently started a job, which I can understand. She then went on a trip with her church from Sunday until Friday (two days ago) and hasn't said anything since Monday. She told me she would try to talk to me but that never happened. I've tried contacting her but she hasn't read any of my messages since Wednesday. Her sister told me she'd be home Friday night but she hasn't even read my messages or said anything.
And a little background on us. I'm pretty clingy, but I've been better lately, and tend to overreact sometimes while she gets stressed out easily and has had relationship problems in the past with people trying to control her. I've told her that I really dislike it when I don't get to talk to her for long periods of time and this has happened before. When this happened before she would ignore me for a week and have to think about things and us in general. She promised me and told me again and again that that would never happen this time.
Is this a cause for concern? She has hardly been on Facebook, hasn't read my messages for a while, hasn't been on Xbox, hasn't messaged another friend, etc..?
Should I try to contact her sister, a friend, or leave it alone for now and see what happens?
Am I overreacting because of what has happened before?
Should I send a message telling her how I feel or not say anything?
I don't understand why this happens and she hasn't blocked or deleted me as far as I know. I mean, I guess I can understand not talking to me while she's at camp because she's supervising younger kids in a different state but is there really a reason to not say anything Friday night, Saturday, and today so far?
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