I live in the US and he, in the UK. Known each other 2 years, 3 in July. Dating just over a year.
The reason why I am scared is because, I, financially, am not in a great place. I had to move back in with my parents last year. I can't afford to live on my own nor can I even handle it, because of my anxiety. He makes good money over there, but coming over here, he wouldn't have that job. I am scared that because of money, it make take years and years for us to finally be living together. I don't even know the process 100% of him moving here and becoming a citizen, though we both have studied everything we could online. I don't want money to be the reason that keeps us from being together. I am hitting into my late 20's, he is a few years younger than me. While yes, we are still young, I want to spend these years with him.
Has anyone been where I am here, with this and made it through? I know I won't lose him, even if it did take years. I just don't want it to. I wish there was someway I could just come in to some money and he can come here to marry me this fall, which is what we are hoping for, but money has to allow it.
The reason why I am scared is because, I, financially, am not in a great place. I had to move back in with my parents last year. I can't afford to live on my own nor can I even handle it, because of my anxiety. He makes good money over there, but coming over here, he wouldn't have that job. I am scared that because of money, it make take years and years for us to finally be living together. I don't even know the process 100% of him moving here and becoming a citizen, though we both have studied everything we could online. I don't want money to be the reason that keeps us from being together. I am hitting into my late 20's, he is a few years younger than me. While yes, we are still young, I want to spend these years with him.
Has anyone been where I am here, with this and made it through? I know I won't lose him, even if it did take years. I just don't want it to. I wish there was someway I could just come in to some money and he can come here to marry me this fall, which is what we are hoping for, but money has to allow it.
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