My greatest fear is that my SO is going to lose her feelings for me. Also because of the lack of visits. Another fear is that she's going to find someone else, someone closer to her.
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Originally posted by Jezah View PostMine has always been that he would meet somebody in his home country, and decide that the convenience made her a better choice. Now that we have admitted we are in love that has faded a bit, but it still nags in the back of my mind since we still have a long road before we close the distance for good
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Originally posted by NaNi View PostMy greatest fear is that my SO is going to lose her feelings for me. Also because of the lack of visits. Another fear is that she's going to find someone else, someone closer to her.
I worry the spark will disappear. I worry I'll disappoint him. And the overwhelming fear that isn't so active right now but I know it will be huge when closing the distance becomes more of a reality - I worry I won't be able to do it. That I won't be able to get a job where he is, and I won't have enough money to support myself. I've been going through an identity crisis for the past 10 years and still have no idea what I want to do with myself.
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i know if u trust each other and have faith u will never get worried
but you know sometimes we cant blame ourself to think of this things like if he cant msg. us asap or if his msgs.or calls were delayed..
this 3 things worried me most:
that he may find someone in his place and would forget about me..
that one day he will wake up and realize that he doesnt love me anymore
and accident.."In love, two of the most important ingredients are being open and being content."
"God must have seen my need for someone who could turn my failure to victory, whose touch could turn my tears to smiles, who by just being there could turn my sadness to laughter. That's why he sent you to me."
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My greatest fear would be that she would someone better than me where she lives. Oh and another equal fear is that like others said if she was in an accident, or something serious happened and I couldn't be there immediately. But I don't think about those kinds of things. I am positive about usLast edited by BoogleBee; July 3, 2011, 05:40 AM.
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I worry sometimes we'll end up being LD for so long that even when we finally close the distance, we won't be able to make the dynamics of a CD relationship work. That fear is second to another one though; it's already been mentioned, but I don't wish to dwell upon it!
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That he won't be able to do the distance anymore or that we won't figure it out after I leave after my working holiday. :/{ Our Story on LFAD }
Our Beginning
Met online: February 2009
Feelings confessed: December 2010
Unofficially together since: January/February 2011
Officially together since: 08 April 2011
Our Story
First meeting in person: 16 August - 14 September 2011
Second visit: 17 March - 01 April 2012
Third visit: 23 July - 13 September 2012
Fourth visit: Looking at 23 March - 6 April 2013
Our Happily Ever After
to be continued...
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