Worried At Times?

[floridaellen]

He's going to college in the fall and I worry that he will find someone at his college and not want to wait for me.

[Haley53]

He's going to college in the fall and I worry that he will find someone at his college and not want to wait for me.

There's this for my SO too...

I'm not insecure in my relationship, but I had a summer fling with someone who cold shouldered me within the first month of his going to college as a way of telling me he'd found someone already. I wasn't insecure then, either, so I worry I'll be blindsighted. :/

[killerkaytee]

My greatest fear is not being able to get close with my boyfriends family if we do not live in California. I don't want to be that family that is never there for things because they live far away =/

[carolynred]

My greatest fear is that when we temporarily close the distance in May that he won't like me anymore because I worry so much all the time. :/ I'm always concerned I am going to do something to screw the relationship up even if I'm trying really hard.

[Shepard-Fowkes]

That either he or I won't be able to get a visa and we'll be stuck in our respective countries forever

[alesitag]

Since I haven't met my SO yet, I've been having these weird dreams, the first one I dreamed about us meeting for the first time, but the man there wasn't my baby... he insisted he was, but he was short, dark-skinned, gray-haired, creepy old man... not my cute, tall, pale-skinned, blue-eyed, redhead Irish Canadian... on my second dream, he was trying to sell me in pieces LOL!! I went to sleep right after seeing some news on human trafficking, so that kinda took over my dream...

But my biggest fear is him being in an accident, and the fact that I wouldn't know about it... I told him about that a few weeks ago, and he was kind of overwhelmed, because he realized there was no way he would know if I had an accident either, but we kinda decided not to think about it too much... until today actually, when I woke up with this weird feeling, so I asked him to give his mom my phone number and my email address so she can contact me in case of an emergency... and I'm giving my best friend his phone number and email address too, since no one in my family speaks English that well...

[Dauntedpoet]

My biggest fear is my SO' blood sugar will drop so low while he's sleeping that he won't be able to wake up to get help. He lives alone. See's his family only occasionally and goes days without talking to anyone but me. I wouldn't know something was wrong until I hadn't heard from him for 24 hours.

[dukes2011]

My biggest fear is there would be something urgent and I couldn't get to him.

[foleyg2]

My greatest fear is that I'll end up giving up parts of my life that are important to me to move and be with him. My family and friends are incredibly important to me and I know that at some point, I have to make the decision between the two.

[usmcgirl]

In order of worry -
He's going to end up in the hospital & because his family doesn't know about me, I won't be told anything.
He's going to find someone new. (Like his ex...)
He's going to get deployed. (Which is inevitable but I'd rather it happened after we went CD)
We're going to change as people and we won't have that same 'click' that we do now.

Well not that I have nasty little thoughts, I'm going to go find a happy thread...

[Jassy_love]

Might sound silly but my greatest LDR fear is that a big war will start before we meet, and he'll go off to fight and die O_O :"(

[xAngelx]

That he will find someone else in his country or if the distance gets to hard for him he will give up:/ Which i know theses things wont happen but ill always worry about them until he is really here with me <3

[lala]

I forgot to say that sometimes I'm afraid that I will give up, cause I can't stand the pain anymore.. In addition I'm turning 24 soon and I would like to marry in a few years and start a family. But that would mean that I will have to close the distance with my SO.. and I don't know if he is ready for this... -.-

[tw168]

That she would wake up ome morning and just decide that she didnt want to wait anymore and that she will met some other fella and leave me......

[Biscous]

I fear things on my own that are totally independent of my GF. I fear that I will somehow view her in a different light. That I will lose attraction from her, or she will from me. That hasn't been the case. I admit that strong attraction comes in waves. Not to say I'm not attracted to her, but I know during times of stress or heavy work, etc I'm not really looking at her in that view. I look at her then to console me. That's a part of any natural relationship though.

I have feared that she would find someone closer and cheat on me, but after being around her I truly know where her heart is and it is with me, as mine with hers.

I ultimately fear that we will grow apart, but we communicate on a daily basis. Our communication is great. We can laugh and talk. Always have a good time. This is amplified when we are in the same place with one another, along with great physicality and a deep loving connection