SO's offensive words

[stormy]

I'm sorry you had this to happen, but I'm glad to see you got rid of someone that hurtful. You are young. You can do much better. I am sorry you had a breakup, though, as I am sure you are hurting. We're here for you.

I second this!

[Mairja]

He did it again, and I broke up with him.
Everyone here was so right. He is nothing but a big a*****e!
Thanks to you guys!

I'm sorry you had to go through this but you did make the right choice. And you were right in what you said in an earlier post - it is mental abuse, and it would only have become worse had you stayed. When someone tells you they love you, and 2 seconds later turn around and call you nasty things - that isn't love. I endured that kind of behaviour (and more) for over 8 years, and it almost destroyed me mentally and emotionally. And the scars will never disappear.

I wish you the best of luck, and again; you did the right thing.

[jana89]

And the scars will never disappear.

Exactly. I believe that mental abuse is in a way much worse than physical one (not that I would approve one or another). We had some pretty rough years with my father, so I know what I am talking about.

As for OP: I´m sorry your relationship ended, but as many others said, you did the right thing. This is simply unacceptable. Stay strong