So yesterday I got a message for my SO that he's looking to help his parents finish their house before X-mas. (he needed to buy some cement, etc.). He asked me if I could send him some money to help him out. I said I couldn't help him at the moment because I also have bills to pay and I also support my parents.
He was like : Huh?! So that's a no?!
So I got angry and said : Oww, okay, you think I'm rich? Is that the reason we are having this relationship? (Which was wrong! I know! Having a hard time at the moment with this LDR, at work, at home,... so I'm a little bit frustrated. Which is no excuse.)
Then he said I don't give a damn about him or his parents. That I offended his parents and he said it's a shame he likes me. Also he thanked me for opening his eyes and he's done with me. He never want to hear me anymore.
I explained to him that I wasn't offending him or his parents and it's just because I have my own bills to pay andI gave the wrong reaction and I was very sorry about that. I said we could talk this out because that's no reason to break up. So now he's ignoring me.
I feeling really guilty today for something I didn't do, which is offending him or his parents.
My heart is saying to let him cool down and try to get into a conversation with him because I don't want to give up on him.
My mind is saying that I just have to leave this behind me and go on with my life.
I am TOTALLY confused!
He was like : Huh?! So that's a no?!
So I got angry and said : Oww, okay, you think I'm rich? Is that the reason we are having this relationship? (Which was wrong! I know! Having a hard time at the moment with this LDR, at work, at home,... so I'm a little bit frustrated. Which is no excuse.)
Then he said I don't give a damn about him or his parents. That I offended his parents and he said it's a shame he likes me. Also he thanked me for opening his eyes and he's done with me. He never want to hear me anymore.
I explained to him that I wasn't offending him or his parents and it's just because I have my own bills to pay andI gave the wrong reaction and I was very sorry about that. I said we could talk this out because that's no reason to break up. So now he's ignoring me.
I feeling really guilty today for something I didn't do, which is offending him or his parents.
My heart is saying to let him cool down and try to get into a conversation with him because I don't want to give up on him.
My mind is saying that I just have to leave this behind me and go on with my life.
I am TOTALLY confused!
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