I pick and tell what I share on this forum. Actually a lot of times I just prefer not to talk about myself unless I see a thread that is similar. But I don't look at all the threads. I just pick and choose which ones happen to look interesting that day! I have other things to do.. like university. I think some members use the blog feature if they want to share something that is more personal so they don't take over the forum. And they might just not look at the thread. There could be so many reasons people wouldn't post something in a thread.
But on topic, I wanted to say that my boyfriend and I would not plan to have children while we are still long distance. We want our future children, if we do decide to have any, to be able to have a good relationship with both of us. As much as sometimes I see other people having babies and get "baby fever", I know neither my boyfriend or I are ready for children. Though the biggest thing stopping us is closing the distance, and the thing stopping that is money. And we also need money to raise a baby so.. not for a while! We are both also going to university so we can have a better chance of making a decent wage to be able to support a family in the future.
But on topic, I wanted to say that my boyfriend and I would not plan to have children while we are still long distance. We want our future children, if we do decide to have any, to be able to have a good relationship with both of us. As much as sometimes I see other people having babies and get "baby fever", I know neither my boyfriend or I are ready for children. Though the biggest thing stopping us is closing the distance, and the thing stopping that is money. And we also need money to raise a baby so.. not for a while! We are both also going to university so we can have a better chance of making a decent wage to be able to support a family in the future.
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