Dear Miss U,
I have been with my boyfriend for over 5 months. I'm a single parent of an 11 year old. He's a great man and we live 2 hours apart and he wants us to move in together. I've been at my job for 14 years. I'm scared? Insecure of leaving everything? What if it doesn't work out? I'm miserable away from him. I love him.
Patty.
Dear Patty,
Immediately I have to think, "why can't he move?" Are the reasons fair and respectful to you?
Workwise, yes you'...
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Miss You Issues: Pending Moves
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Miss You Issues: Love & Time
Dear Miss U,
What do you do when you just miss them so much and can't do anything about it. I can't see him he's in a while other state. I know I'm young but I really really like him and I just want to hug him.
Kylie. Dear Kylie, Sometimes all you can do is accept that you can't do those things you want to do. As hard as that sounds, acceptance is empowering. All that moping will do is bring you down, after all, so accept those things you currently can not ... -
Miss You Issues: Once A Cheater...
Dear Miss U, I've been dating my LDR sweetheart for 2 years. He treats me like gold. I never knew a relationship could be this amazing or that I could be this happy every day. He's wonderful, and goes out of his way to make me feel loved, beautiful and appreciated. He treats me the way I always wished a boy would. We're crazy about each-other. I'm a lucky girl. My friends and family all adore him and say they've never seen me so happy. But I know that he cheated on his only other seriou... -
Miss You Issues: Big Efforts
Dear Miss U, We have been in a LDR for 4 years now, he comes from Germany and I come from Chile. A year ago I managed to finally get together for a long term (3 years), since I came to study my bachelor in Germany. However, 4 months after my arrival, my boyfriend left to Colombia for 1 year to do voluntary social service. He got a scholarship for it and felt bad for leaving me alone in a country completely new for me, but he left anyway but I'm happy he had that opportunity. During the tim... -
Miss You Issues: Obligations & Consequences
Dear Miss U, My ex and I had been in a 3 year LD relationship. He was from Ghana. We never got a chance to meet in person (due to financial issues/him getting denied visas) but we would always keep in contact via video chats, call, texts, emails, etc. Over time things started to change. The communication wasn't as great as it used to be, it started decreasing. I started getting frustrated due to the lack of communication and many failed attempts of us meeting (he was supposed to come to the U.S.... -
Miss You Issues: Stale Cookies
Dear Miss U, My girlfriend and I have been together for over a year now, before then we played PC games and spoke on Skype for 2 years prior. I usually go up to her country to visit her and things in the first couple of months were just perfect, the activities (walking, visiting families, etc) and the conversations we had were fun, romantic and amazing! Our LDR was perfect up to the point where she became a Nursing student at her University, and moved from her parents' to a flat of her own in ... -
Miss You Issues: Proof
Dear Miss U, I've been with my bf for 2.5 years (lived together for 2 years). Things have been great! Except that it took me a lot of effort to be less jealous. Because he's obviously into a certain type of girl (I'm that type too). He kept reassuring me that he loves me for who I am and not who I might resemble/represent, and I know I should believe him, yet the irrational side always gives in to jealousy. I recently got accepted into grad school and will be away for at least 4 years. A... -
Miss You Issues: Stay Or Go?
Dear Miss U, Four years ago I met a guy who chased me until I couldn't resist any longer. What we have is complicated and intense but we love each other more than we have ever loved anyone else. We have been on and off all these years but I need to know if it's worth sacrificing a lot. Every time we see each other it's Amazing but we have never lived in the same state. He wants me to move to New York since he can't leave his family business but I have yet to figure out my career path or if I wan... -
Miss You Issues: Keep Smiling
Dear Miss U, To start off, I have depression and have experienced things that don't allow me to trust people(even friends and family) easily. And honestly, the near complete trust I have for my SO before we started dating is a miracle. He's the only person I can truly trust. He's in the army and stationed over 13 hours away. He's very independent and optimistic, so he doesn't really understand what to do when my depression has taken hold of me. Nor does he understand that when my depression ... -
Miss You Issues: Quick Questions
Dear Miss U, I love my boyfriend. He makes me so happy. I just feel like I'm a bad girlfriend sometimes. He got me this wonderful gift and sent it to me in the mail. I want to send him something back, but its a LOT harder than it seems to shop for someone you've never met. He says he'll be happy with whatever I get him, but I want everything to be perfect. I just want him to be happy. I sometimes wonder if I'm doing enough in our relationship. Half of the time, I feel like I am, but the other h... -
Miss You Issues: How To Disappear
Dear Miss U, I dated a guy for 2+ years. It was a really tough relationship emotionally and mentally because we never got to meet and we both had a lot of personal problems to work through. The first time we broke up, I broke up with him because he constantly harped on my religious views. After the break up, he was constantly contacting me through email and through friends and it got to the point that I had to block him. I eventually recontacted him to tell him that I was sorry and what no... -
Miss You Issues: Go For It!
Dear Miss U, Even on our first date he warned me he was moving in August. We fell so fast for each other in a romantic summer filed with trips to places like Aspen or Mexico. He's so respectful and kind. I love his passion and drive and feel like it's something I need in my life. The only issue is now he's in New York for medical school, which is awesome!!! This will just be for an extended period of time.. 4 years for med school and another 4 possibly anywhere for residency. With all of this... -
Miss You Issues: Your Best Shot
Dear Miss U, My girlfriend and I have been in a relationship for 11 months . When we are together everything is fantastic. We have lots a fun being together and we are happy when we are able be there for one another. Don't get me wrong, we have our arguments, but we always manage to resolve them. I ended up moving back to Scotland after Uni 2 months into the relationship. At the time, we both decided that we wanted to remain together because we really cared about each other. I realized that ... -
Miss You Issues: Your Relationship, Not Theirs
Dear Miss U, I met my bf online when I was still in college. We saw each other pretty much everyday and I stayed over at his apartment most nights. Well, I graduated a couple of weeks ago and moved back home with my parents. Meanwhile, my bf has a steady job and LOVES that town so I told him that I would make the effort to come see him every weekend. I'm currently looking for a job so I told him that it's unrealistic for me to come up every weekend and I don't want to come up during the week be... -
Miss You Issues: Ten Steps To Save Your Marriage
Dear Miss U, I have been struggling in my marriage for the last 10 years. I have been married for 18 years... have 3 children. Recently I traveled by myself to California and saw an old flame and had an affair with him. Sparks flew and we are now still talking and I have fallen in love with him. I don't know what my husband is hanging onto and why he still wants me when I have cheated on him and I want to be with this other guy. Can you please help me on what you would you do? Thank you ...