Is your SO considerably more attractive than you?

[milaya]

I think we're pretty equal.
A lot of Japanese people (including both mine and his friends) like to refer to us as 美女美男 couple. Which means beautiful girl and handsome guy couple. My SO's family also like to joke that ever since my SO was a little kid girls were chasing after him. It's kinda like they see him as the "attractive guy of the family".

When we first met and started dating I saw myself as less attractive than him, mostly because I was slightly overweight which caused me to have very low self esteem. But, after I started dating him I suddenly started to lose weight (even without effort) so in one year I had suddenly lost around 12 kilos (around 26.5 pounds). That has helped me to feel equal to him, also because I've always been told that I have a pretty face.
I also do feel popular if I go to clubs or such with my friends.

[Dziubka]

He has beautiful green eyes, I have big boobs.


He is tall, I have big boobs.

He has this amazing smile that makes me melt.

My mother spent thousands and thousands of dollars on braces, and years of me being tortured, so my smile better be good.





I think we fit together. perfectly. <3

My boyfriend and I are pretty equal, too. It feels a bit weird saying that because I think he's so cute and good looking, so in conclusion I'm saying I think I'm cute and good looking, too... which is not necessarily the case.

But I don't think one of us is considerably more attractive than the other.

[greensweatergirl]

At first I thought we were about equal. As time goes on though, I find more and more moments where I look at him and think, "My God, How did I manage to pull the wool over his eyes? He's so good looking!". Luckily he makes a point of telling me I'm beautiful every day and the way he looks at me, I know he means it.

[LilyChiba]

We both agree the other is more attractive than ourselves, so I would say we are on equal grounds. He doesn't accept me calling him handsome/hot/smexy and I don't accept him calling me beautiful/hot/pretty. I think its both in a humbling manner to be honest, it's not because I don't think I'm decent, it's because I don't want to appear to 'up myself' to anyone. And considering he gets girls trying to get him at the clubs, I have no doubt that's a testament to him being good looking as well

[Zapookie]

I think that that my SO is very attractive but I spoke to him about this just now and he's saying I'm the better looking one. I think we're both on equal levels. He's gorgeous. Like he's the type of guy I used to dream about but never thought I would get so I would always lower my standards just a little haha. When I see girls eyeing him up I just feel like.. damn. I'm so lucky and he's all mine muahahah :3

[squirrelz15]

I'd say we're probably pretty equal. Least in my opinion. I can be pretty if I try, but generally I'm pretty plain. He thinks I'm pretty though, and I'm one of those people that the more I get to know him as a person the sexier I think he is, so I know you asked about looks, but sometimes I think personality adds so much to the looks department. lol

[Malaga]

It's hard to be objective about something like that as most of us tend to be overly self-critical. But yeah, I would say he's more attractive than me, even when I put aside my feelings for him and my self-criticism. He also photographs extremely well and a number of people told him he should consider being a model Nobody ever told me that lol. Even he conceded I'm not 'conventionally pretty' but that he much prefers it that way. I know that a lot of people find me attractive, including his friends, but yeah, in a less conventional way lol.
He's also rather self-critical of himself but it's all ridiculous in mine and everyone else's eyes.

But I think together we raise each other's attractiveness. We're striking as a couple, as we're both tall and lean, I'm a redhead and he's mixed race and we always stand out. Virtually everyone said, OMG you're MFEO. So if on my own I'm the odd one out, when we're together I look like I was totally meant to be this way.

[thatgirllit]

It's hard to be objective about something like that as most of us tend to be overly self-critical. But yeah, I would say he's more attractive than me, even when I put aside my feelings for him and my self-criticism. He also photographs extremely well and a number of people told him he should consider being a model Nobody ever told me that lol. Even he conceded I'm not 'conventionally pretty' but that he much prefers it that way. I know that a lot of people find me attractive, including his friends, but yeah, in a less conventional way lol.
He's also rather self-critical of himself but it's all ridiculous in mine and everyone else's eyes.

But I think together we raise each other's attractiveness. We're striking as a couple, as we're both tall and lean, I'm a redhead and he's mixed race and we always stand out. Virtually everyone said, OMG you're MFEO. So if on my own I'm the odd one out, when we're together I look like I was totally meant to be this way.

That was poetic.

[floridaellen]

Honestly, people have told me I'm the more attractive one. But I don't believe it. I think he's so cute and sexy. I'd say that my body is probably 'better' than his but his face is more attractive than mine. But as long as I'm attracted to him, which I definitely am, then it doesn't really matter.
We really look quite similar, like possibly related, so I guess we should probably be about the same in reality :P

[Haley53]

I have an extremely low self-esteem and tend to be overly critical to the point of internalisation... That being said, I do believe I was more attractive than my ex. I'd say I'm on par or even slightly less attractive than my current partner, but I also feel that it's hard for me to be objective because I'm different to what his type used to be and I've never really had a "type." For example, when he was 16, he used to be more attracted to the "emo" look, though he's admitted to always finding me very, very attractive despite not being his "usual type." That's something he feels stupid for saying because at 19 (well, tomorrow), he can't believe he ever even liked that style/type to begin with. :P But eh, things change, especially at that age. The only thing about him that's never been my type is his hair, even if it's one of my favourite features about him, because I'm usually a short-hair style type of person whereas his is... not long, but moppier? XD Like that makes it sound ill-kempt and it's not - he actually does more with his hair than I do - but it's not quite long, so I wasn't sure what to call it.

https://a1.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hpho...01650095_n.jpg Have a picture for reference.

But I like to think we fit. Can't say I've ever really compared us and gone over who is more attractive, even if I'd had moments of "damn, why are we in public/why am I not there so I can jump your bones?" He hates white, but when he slips into his tight white t-shirts? Mm... LOL.

[thatgirllit]

I have an extremely low self-esteem and tend to be overly critical to the point of internalisation... That being said, I do believe I was more attractive than my ex. I'd say I'm on par or even slightly less attractive than my current partner, but I also feel that it's hard for me to be objective because I'm different to what his type used to be and I've never really had a "type." For example, when he was 16, he used to be more attracted to the "emo" look, though he's admitted to always finding me very, very attractive despite not being his "usual type." That's something he feels stupid for saying because at 19 (well, tomorrow), he can't believe he ever even liked that style/type to begin with. :P But eh, things change, especially at that age. The only thing about him that's never been my type is his hair, even if it's one of my favourite features about him, because I'm usually a short-hair style type of person whereas his is... not long, but moppier? XD Like that makes it sound ill-kempt and it's not - he actually does more with his hair than I do - but it's not quite long, so I wasn't sure what to call it.

https://a1.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hpho...01650095_n.jpg Have a picture for reference.

But I like to think we fit. Can't say I've ever really compared us and gone over who is more attractive, even if I'd had moments of "damn, why are we in public/why am I not there so I can jump your bones?" He hates white, but when he slips into his tight white t-shirts? Mm... LOL.

You guys looks sooooooooooooooo happy. *envious* And wherever you are is absolutely beautiful. *envious*

[Haley53]

You guys looks sooooooooooooooo happy. *envious* And wherever you are is absolutely beautiful. *envious*

I'd planned a night out at a 5-star for the both of us and ended up not having the money to attach the fancy dinner. :P So what we ended up doing was going to Merrion Square Park (he's a Dubliner), which was near enough to our hotel, and having a picnic. It started to sprinkle about midway through, but it was lovely nonetheless.

[HollzHeartsChris]

I'd say we were fairly even =P I don't really tend to judge people on their looks, but I love the way he looks and I have done since we first gazed at each other on webcam. He has gorgeous chocolate coloured eyes and I love it when he smiles. Am I smitten? I guess you could say so =P

[rhomy]

Mmm... I guess we are probably even.
My friends say he looks like a Hollywood actor (and that's what I think too lol) but everybody also say that I'm really good looking.
I guess I'm ok. I can't be objective about my looks. I know I do better than a lot of ppl haha, but saying I'm gorgeous... Idk...

Anyways, he is really handsome and sexy, besides he has a personality that only can improve that

[blankita719]

I'd say equal. We're both pale redheads (or he was until he went gray ). We get a lot of people that tell us we just look like we belong together - something I said for years