Is your SO considerably more attractive than you?

[Kerry]

I'd say we're both the same in this department.

[Dar917]

I'm 29 and I still get acne; I'm average-looking I guess, or cute on a good day. Of course my bf says I'm beautiful and sexy; I think he's the cutest boy! XD

[Xtinacng]

So... how exactly do you deal with this?

I don't consider myself a good looking person, I don't really care for looks and I have trouble thinking of myself as pretty. My SO thinks I'm too beautiful for him and his friends say the same, sometimes he insists on it and in the past it has lead to arguments. So how exactly do you deal with it?
And is there a way for me to make it less of an issue?

[lademoiselle]

My SO has said a few times (too many for my liking...) that he doesn't know why a "beautiful girl like [me] would date an ugly guy like [him]". I know it's just insecurity speaking, but still. It isn't fair. I don't think I'm any prettier than the average girl, and while my SO is nothing like the "type" of guy who used to catch my eye before I met him, I still think he's the most handsome man in the world. I do think we make a rather unusual couple... but that's the beauty of us!

[lala]

if there was nothing beautiful on our SO we wouldn't have fell in love with them, doesn't matter if it's their eyes, the way they talk.. beauty and art is always subjective..
my SO said a few times that he can't believe how lucky he is that he get someone like me. People look sometimes at us, and I'm pretty sure that his friends also think why I chose him.. my parents said that too. One of his friends asked him how he found someone so perfect..
In my eyes he is just awesome!I love everything about him.yes he is the same hight as me and a bit chubby...,but I love every single cell of his body
I used to be not that atractive when I was younger, and no one was interessted in me..I also had a low self esteem, but I concentrated on myself and become the person I wanted to be and I love myself. Ha and now all the guys I fancied back then are interested in me tzz F*** YOU!

[WakeUpSusie]

I'd say we're about equal, but in very different ways. Physically, we're a very mismatched couple in that we look very different from each other, but I would definitely say we both have great physical assets. I think I have a nice face and figure and am generally pretty, and he is just downright sexy. Other women LOVE him, haha! I don't feel intimidated by him in that sense, which is good.

[haribo0603]

My SO, German, was tall & slender when he was young, and I, Japanese, looked rather childish than young in that time. I know Asian often looks young but among my friends I looked still younger. Now he is overweight and I look younger, not childish :-) But I often feel diffidence compared to my SO's European friends because I have never be told I am sexy.

[meganpillow]

I believe that me and my SO are equal. I am the serious educated one while he is the playful and nourishing one (which shows up on our physical appearance). Everyone says that we make a great couple so I guess that's good!

[fitfilipina]

I could definitely say that I am more attractive than my SO. Not that its a bad thing, but people are often surprised that we're together when I show them a picture or when we're out together. Even his dad was like, "Seriously, what do you see in him? You're so pretty."

I will admit, he's not really the "type" of guy I'd dated before -- he's a little dorky, dark hair, glasses, well dressed -- but I think he's absolutely wonderful. Some days I just love looking at him
because I love the little parts of him i.e. his smile, the scruff, his deeo hazel eyes... <3

It's funny too, because although I
know I am considerably more attractive enough, I often feel like I'm not good enough. That I need to look better for fear of him finding someone hotter or something :P Guess its some weird thing I'm hung up on because I'm a perfectionist anf I just want the very best for him (that, and I'm a bit of a jealous person!). He always thinks I'm crazy when I say this.

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It probably stems from the fact that he says he's always kind of been into the all-American blonde (which is like the only girl he'll still glance at on the street) while I'm a Spanish-Asian mix with dark hair.

[Manoek]

I don't know.. I'm a girl.. He is a guy.. I think we are a pretty good looking couple

He is tall and skinny.. I'm am short and less skinny hahaha..

He has nice lips! I have nice eyes.. well he has nice eyes as well.. And a nice nose.. and nice ears.. ok.. maybe he is more attractive then me..

Noooo noo.. I have a better butt.. he really doesn't have any

Anyway.. I think we are pretty hot

[Katelyn]

I think we are equal =) He definitely makes me feel beautiful. He always says that he is ugly (lies).

My sister always jokes around that I am like the girls in the movies that are super pretty and date the nerdy boys (yeah, he does have a bit of a nerd streak in him). She is like I just don't get it haha.

[Tooki]

She is way better than me! (Honestly I just need more confidence)

[meganrey]

Hmmm...you know, when my SO and I first met, I wasn't immediately physically attracted to him... He's not what I usually referred to as "my type". But now, I'd say that we're even. LOL I just find him soo freakin attractive! His smile, his eyes, his bald head...LOL He could make the ugliest of faces and some how it'd still be cute. He says all the time that he think's I'm far superior as far as looks go, but I don't think so. He makes me feel beautiful.

[snow_girl]

I asked my SO this, he said it depends on the day! Hah

[lovemnmz]

well when i first met him i actually thought his brother was cute...>> even my mom thinks that out of the two my SO's bro is cuter lmao but i didn't really find him attractive...but for some reason i find him sexy and good looking because i like his nose...i like his eyes...his lips (lol) and so much more hahaha and i wasn't confident but after i started dating him i realized that I am 10 and so is he...so i think we're both the same....then again we could both be 0's lmao