Am I crazy?

[SoFarAway]

so, everybody who knows my story knows what I have been through...

in the past couple of days, I caught myself googling and searching for airline ticket prices (and a way to fill up my skymiles account) since I have so much time on my hands where I don't even know what to do with myself. Anyways, when Helen and I admitted our feelings to each other we didn't break out the big L word (no, not lesbian), but since I know her for so long and had feelings for her for such a long time, I want to tell her how I really feel! ...but I don't wanna do it over the phone, Skype, or any other impersonal way.

Here is my question: Should I spend the 700 dollars and travel 4600 miles around the world for just two days to show up at her work unexpectedly and tell her that I love her?

aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaand GO:

[Nbaby]

If u are rich then i say yes . If u are not i wouldnt do it. I would rather save it up for a longer trip. Slow down Romeo be patient u will get the chance.

[SoFarAway]

Money is not really the point to worry about... The thing is, I will go back on my ship on the 26 and then contacting her will be really difficult. It would be my last chance to see and really talk to her privately in over 5 months... the next trip is already planned. the other thing is the physical stress...

[lucybelle]

DO IT!

[Schlafmütze]

Go for it!

[Biddlybiddlybombop]

If you can afford to without compromising financing other trips to see her, then definitely.

[sewbama]

Absolutely! If it wouldn't hurt the other things in your life, the sheer romanticism of it is worth all that. I wouldn't do it if it will strain your finances or make you lose your job, but considering you won't even be able to talk to her privately for a long while, I think it's worth it.

[BellaJedi]

Big yes! I just read your story, SO CUTE oh man. Exciting! Good luck

[Moon]

If you're not worried about the money, then totally do this! I can't think of a more honest and romantic gesture, if my guy did that, it would be one of the best things that ever happened to me. She'll feel like the luckiest woman in the world

[dglynn77]

$700? I'm sooooo jealous... lol

YES!!!

[lyonsgirl]

A resounding YES, it seems like, from all of us!

If my guy were to show up just to tell me he loves me... I'm pretty sure I would cry out of happiness! Scratch that. I know I would. Do it, and then tell us all about it!!

[AliDance]

Awh!! I vote YES!

[Haley53]

A resounding YES, it seems like, from all of us!

If my guy were to show up just to tell me he loves me... I'm pretty sure I would cry out of happiness! Scratch that. I know I would. Do it, and then tell us all about it!!

Yes.

Since money isn't an object for you, I say go for it!

[Zephii]

the other thing is the physical stress...

You're not so old that your body wont recover Go on and do it!

[squeeker]

I say you seem to have the money and it's a really romantic gesture and you won't have as much contact with her for a few months..... Go for it!! But.. how is she with surprises? Is she the type that might be hard with change? Just something to think about.. but I'm sure that it would be amazing. I don't want to kill the spontaneousity but I also just thought I'd add... if you go unexpectedly, and she works or has other plans.. it's something to think about. But I'm sure you'd be able to catch up with her and say the words you really want to say. And it would be very romantic. I know I'd be overjoyed to see my SO unexpectedly just for him to say he loves me (he's already said it but it would still be sweet!). I'm sorry for saying too much, I was just going to say "go for it!" because I think it would be very sweet but then the logical part of my brain wanted to jump in and mention a few things in case you hadn't thought of them. But if you have the money to spend and it wouldn't hurt your budget at all, I say go for it! Because even if it is a super super short trip, at least you can get the words off your mind and know she knows. I hope it goes well, don't forget to tell us all about it too if you want!