Originally posted by Hkh8871
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I can definitely understand your fears though. My first year dating my SO, we fought a LOT and after a while he tried avoiding me a little because he didn't wanna have such serious arguments all the time. It burned him out. I'm not sure if I'd say that 1 text a day is "moving forward", but it might be what works for him. If it doesn't for you, let him know! You might be a little scared to, seeing as how you guys have such serious conversations all the time and he doesn't wanna involve himself in those...but maybe start off by saying something like "can you hear me out? I know we've been having serious conversations lately, but they aren't exactly getting better because of our lack of communication..." or something.
Also, I can understand your fear of him just coming to have sex, especially if he only seems to reply to your texts when they become more about sex...but if you don't talk to him about this, either, it won't change! Communication is key, just try opening those doors again, very gently...
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