Originally posted by dummy56
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It is ridiculous. As much as I am a jealous person myself, it is a bit much. The only thing I want my SO to do is to tell me about his friends. I want to know about them, what they do when they hang out and I want to meet them when I am with him. He is not always too receptive, but we have made some progress about that too. If he has friends then I want to know his friends. Same goes for me - I do not mind at all introducing him to my guy friends. And no I do not think it is that easy to develop feelings for someone just because he or she is a good person. There are many god people around and if we were to fall in love with every single one the whole world would be in trouble.
I think you need to calm down a little. She may be a natural flirt and she may be lying to you, but I really do suspect she has reasons to, because you seem a bit too paranoid even on here (do not mean to offend you in any way). If you do not like something you should be able to talk to her about it CALMLY. And be able to deal with your insecurities and not give her unreasonable requests
My SO a few times blew up on me when he called and I did not pick up the phone. Couple of times i was in the bathroom, one time i was in a shower, and once i forgot my phone in my friend's car. All those times he yelled at me or ignored when i called back 5-10 MINUTES LATER. Then he told me that he wanted me to take my phone to the bathroom with me and reasoned it with "you keep your skype on all night so your mom can call you at any time (it is true) so why not take your phone to the bathroom with you?". I suspect that you are THAT jealous and i do not know how patient your SO is. I think i have way above average kind of patience, but not many people have that. As I said me and my SO are working on things HARD. It has been quite a process but we have made progress. Work on yourself and good luck!
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